>text girl "would you like to go on a date sometime?"
>probably not the most suave way to ask, but she said yes, when she gets back from her trip with her parents
>text her, she replies only intermittently throughout the trip
>one day she just straight up doesn't respond to my "how's your trip going", that's our last communique
>4 months later (today), she randomly texts me "Hey! How've you been? Haven't talked to you in so long :\"
For what purpose?
She's in need of a dicking.
She was busy on her trip, so didn't feel like wasting it messaging. Then when you never contacted her again, she felt awkward about it and it took 4 months before she finally decided to try.
Talk to her, ask her out again if you want to, but this time set a date and suggest a place. If she fades again, give up and move on.
>>17447805
she probably met someone else or lost interest for what ever reason. she is probably texting you now because she is desperate. i could be wrong but this is what i think. good luck.
Probably talking to other boys.
Best way to get back on the train is to say something like yeah, where've you been? We were supposed to go on a date, remember?
And then she'll feel guilty and totally do ya.
Okay I was kidding about the last part, but that's all up to you.
>>17447817
This is a pretty good guess. Something got in the way before and she lost interest but now somethings happened to make her feel vulnerable or unwanted and she wants some validation.
Play hard to get.
>>17447823
Well, I was actually digging through old texts and found this. I ended up never replying, and I think it's been almost a year since then. I was just wondering if I had done the right thing at the time.
>>17447823
I like this idea, make her work for your attention. She's left you on the back burner for months, show her that you aren't so easy to get back.
>>17447832
I would say you did the right thing.
I think you're probably Plan B.
But if this is a girl you like, give it your best shot.