>3 year relationship
>break up 8 months ago (she was wanting to)
>contacts me every ~1.5 months
>we've talked on the phone. Goes good, even talked about and agrees with everything. Then no talking after.
>deleted from Facebook about 2 months ago. Sends me trivial Facebook message.
What gives? I know she feels bad about it. Although she contacts me for the most stupid reasons. I know she doesn't hate me and respects me.
Pic: a mercury switch i fixed. At the time when we were together she couldn't give a damn. Then told me she got a leaky power steering. 2 months later got that message.
>Even talk about our relationship*
Another random message
Maybe she's trying to keep you in her back pocket possibly in case she's got no one else and knows you may want her back. Could be wrong of course but theres some food for thought
Yeah she knows i wanted to work at it. I personally think she had someone lined up before leaving me (though I never mentioned it). Mainly it was miscommunication on both parta which kind of lead both not happy about things.
I've thought about being blunt amd asking why she contacts me. Maybe add its not that it's necessarily unwelcome..
It's not necessarily unwelcome*
>>17447704
I'll have to aggree with this anon, being someone who broke off a three year relationship half a year ago the only reason why I'd get in touch every once in a while would be because I'd treat my ex as a backup.
However if my ex was a great person (which he wasn't I guess) I would consider staying in touch as friends but desu I don't think I could maintain that relationship as I'm (and most people are, I suppose) the type of person that would distance themselves from their past relationships.
>>17447628
>break up 8 months ago
why are you still talking to her?
she's probably been fucking random nignogs even before you broke up.
Find someone already and cut this bitch out of your life. Dump fuck.
>>17447752
I've been trying.. I basically broke off every communication i could. She's not really the scandalous type. I'm sure she's finding the grass isn't always greener.
>>17447769
>I've been trying
you aren't trying hard enough.
Just ignore her message and focus in finding someone else.
Seriously dude, even if you go back together, how long it will last this time until she gets bored of you all over again?