Does anyone else's friends only hangout if you text them

Some of mine do. It's because they're introverts and homebodies or too lazy to organise something.

>>17445520
the problem is that them not texting you first is the thing that bothers you

>>17445520

as a general rule i was only able to get a 1 on 1 with my friends if i initiated, and even then it was by no means a guarantee. towards the end it was virtually impossible.

they would reach out weekly to invite me to board game night, but at this point in our relationship i was nothing more than another opponent to fill up the roster. if i wasn't consistently in the top 3 players i doubt id get invited back.

when i came down with brain damage he didnt bother texting me for over a month. when he did, it wasnt even to ask how i was coping with it all. just 'wanna play board games?'

he reached out again a few months later on my birthday, asking how i was dealing that time and inviting me to board games again.

feels bad man, im not going back to game nights, but i miss him a lot more than id like to admit. i cant even understand why but i always thought of him as a really close friend. I think its cuz one of the first htings he did for me was a total bro move, a real solid. and it just felt like instant bro-hood.

im glad its over. but i still miss him.