Just started my first relationship ever.
Any tips on how to sail the ship and keep it afloat?
Variety is the spice of life. Don't do the same thing every day. Don't binge watch the same show every night. Don't always smash in the same position every time you do. Be interesting. This should be common knowledge and its the best way to keep your relationship afloat.
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Don't be completely autistic
I'm in the same boat. I'm trying not to let my nervous, analytical side to take over and ruin it with constant troubleshooting and nit-picking. I remind myself that it shouldn't be a chore, though it needs basic maintenance. All the stuff I do is stuff that I want to do, so that I'm satisfied that I'm working on it but not out of fear or anxiety. Seems to be working well so far. Plus, open communication with the gf really takes off the pressure by getting answers to stuff that I'd otherwise overthink.
Have fun, buddy.
Well the best thing to do is to put your needs absolutely first and treat her like a lady when you spend time together and treat her like your property in bed. She has two arms, legs and a brain just like you, don't do more than you have to.
Create space and keep improving yourself. CREATE SOME BOUNDARIES FOR HER NOW SO ITS NO CONFUSION LATER.