>typical nerd
>love computers, games and technology
>glasses, skinny, not that assertive
>have a weird sense of humour
Do any normal women find my personality attractive? I've made some progress trying to become more normal by going to the gym and wearing contats and not talking about my hobbies but the girls who seem to want to talk to me when i act differently i have nothing in common with and as soon as I get home I go straigth back to my computer.
>>17441757
Go to fit and fa
>>17441757
>normal women
define normal. by which i mean, you cant. you may mean hot women or whatever but why not just date someon who likes what you like and is in your attractiveness level?
and if ur answer is
>THEYRE SO RARE
then you dont actualyl care about human connection, just a hole, so get an escort
I'm so sorry, but no. Women like athletic alpha males. If you have a lot of money, they'll "love" you then. Honestly though, you're pretty fucked. Get used to the thought of being alone now while you're young; it'll make it easier when you're older.
>>17441766
By normal I mean no mental illness. I prefer cute over hot, and bimbos are really offputting.
I guess that because I really don't have a manly presence I'm not going to find a girlfriend ever, I'm 22 by the way.
>>17441757
Not talking about things you love and changing your demeanour will lead to girls who are merely interested in the fake persona you created instead of who you really are. If you're just in it for sum fug this surely works, but if you want someone who actually cares about you, this is most likely not a helpful approach.
>>17441766
This.
If you are what you describe, then you're a 3/10 looking for a 7+/10. In which case, enjoy dying alone.
Learn your hand and play it better, you delusional virgin.
>>17441847
I didn't even describe what kind of girl I am looking for, I simply said no mental illness. It was some other anon that made some shit up that isn't related to what I said and you also somehow went along with it.
>>17441896
Your shitty roundabout way of avoiding the issue is only confirming that it's true. Have fun with your non-descriptive whining.
>>17441757
To be fair, you did not describe anything about your personality except a weird sense of humor which is incredibly vague.
In high school I was a varsity football player, and I continued to be fit in college. I know how to be fashionable and how to look good. I was a virgin until I was 23. I was insecure, and girls saw that. It's all about how you carry yourself. Girls like confident guys. Not saying you can let yourself go, but a big part of attraction is being secure in yourself.
>>17441955
No, you're just baiting me into a situation where I come off like I have higher standards than what I deserve, which isn't the case at all.
People always want a quick and easy way to justify their preconcieved judgements, you're not getting one.
>>17441960
I'm a big nerd, thats all there is to it really, and a little more crass/oblivious to social norms than most.