Has anyone ever improved their sex life by overcoming their

I feel you need to strike the right balance. Too much jerking and I know I won't be able to get hard for the girl. Not enough jerking and I know I will blow my load in minutes. Just the right amount of jerking and I can fuck the girl until she cums and then I can cum whenever I want.

I also get performance anxiety too when I'm with a new person. I've had sex with a lot of women, but whenever I'm with someone for the very first time, my mind is going a million miles per hour and I can't get my dick up. I'm usually good to go the second time we try to have sex (at a later date) but I can never get it up on the first try. In my case, I think it's a comfort thing.

>>17440460

This shit sounds like me too, but the article is off kilter for me because I don't have anyone to be fucking at the moment.

It's hard for me to stop masturbating when I've been single for two years and don't really see that changing any time soon. (Not for lack of options but mainly because I don't like anyone that way that I can feasibly date.)

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>>17440491

For me it's delayed ejaculation, I can get it up but it takes ages to cum or sometimes I can't.

>>17440492

I'm attempting no fap at the minute to try remedy this, It will be one week tomorrow but every day I've been looking at porn and edging myself because I'm addicted. I've decided to stop doing that.

There's a lot of supposed benefits

http://rebootblueprint.com/10-powerful-benefits-of-quitting-porn/

As a fellow 28 year old I can say that getting rid of porn is worth it.
It's really hard though and I've been trying to stop my porn addiction for 2 years now yet my longest streak was 2 months.

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>>17440512

That seems a world a way from me now, I'm going to try to take it one week at a time.

Any tips?

>>17440506
Not being able to cum isn't such a bad thing. I've been in situations where I could get hard and have sex for hours on end. For the girl, it just means she gets to have multiple orgasms. For you (and me, I guess) it means having extremely long sex sessions and then jerking off when alone to reach orgasm.

>>17440522
Stay busy. Don't let your mind get bored and divert to porn and if you find yourself thinking about it, try to do something else.

>>17440523
>For the girl, it just means she gets to have multiple orgasms.
>For the girl, it just means
>just means
I... I hate you. The feeling will have faded five min from now in case you're the sort to take random internet comments to heart, but right now in this moment holy shit I actually fucking hate you. Intensely.

>>17440529
Damn do I do this. I'll just be hoppin round the net reading about video games, chattin shit on 4chan and before I realize it, pants are off, dick is in hand and I'm hafway to blowing it to some bondage or some shit.

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