So I'm coming out on the opposite side of almost 2 years

First of all good for you for turning it around. I did the same around a year ago and I'm in the same boat as you.

It's so obvious that it sounds stupid, but if you can get involved in a social activity that involves your interests, you'll meet people there.

I play guitar and have friends in bands, so sometimes I go and jam with them and meet new people. If you belong to a gym you might have a chance there too. You could take a class or something, idk.

Good luck.

>>17438567
Thanks brah, good luck to you as well.

I guess I need to expand my horizons or something.

My problem is that as soon as I start getting close to someone, it comes down to "let's get drinks", which is a big problem.

Even the social bike ride in my city ends with everyone hanging out and getting drunk at the the end. It's a conundrum to say the least.

>>17438579
Yeah I get that, but if it's a one on one thing you can usually just tell them you don't drink and if they're not a dick they'll understand and be cool with it.

Also if you're interested in the bike ride I wouldn't discount the entire thing just cause it ends with people meeting for drinks. You can still hang out at bars if you have the self control to just drink water or whatever. And maybe be prepared to take a little shit.