I know this is probably stupid, but I met this really nice girl

>>17437983

as a general rule if she doesnt reschedule, she is not interested. girls tend to make time if they really like you.

she may really have health issues, but shes also not interested. if you want to wait a week or a month (Depending on hwo severe they were implied to be) go for it. but dont pine over her, no need

>>17437988
this. Couldn't have said it better myself.

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This is exactly what she said, if that makes a difference...

She's from Vietnam, so her English isn't perfect.

>>17438012

you can always try the
>are you sure dont want to meet up and talk about it? (my treat)

but you gotta remember that this isnt a video game, there isnt always a way to 'win'.

>>17438012
She's not interested. Stay friendly if you'd like, but you're not gonna get the gook pussy

>>17438035
>>are you sure dont want to meet up and talk about it? (my treat)

DO NOT do his.
Do not offer to be her emotional tampon this early in the game, especially including paying for her meal while she gushes her dumb shit at you.
Ignore this guy.

>>17438068

>ignore this girl

fix'd.

>>17438068
This was before I made this thread, but I did say if she ever wanted to get her mind off thing that it's my treat... Is that just as bad?

>>17438084
No, that's alright. Is good. It also puts the ball in her court. It's her responsibility to contact you now.
Here's what I judge from this situation. She deleted tinder and she's withdrawing her invitation. But she still wanted a way to contact you. She has a lot going on right now and can't really handle dating. But she saw something special in you. She wants the ability to find you again when she's in a better place.
I think that's a pretty good sign.

>>17438073
Ignore her too.

>>17438084
No because you don't even know her. She's not a good friend or anything like that. She's a stranger.

>>17438137
doesn't mean anything imo. She wants more FB friend or whatever

>>17438137
Don't get his hopes up, his chances are pretty slim imo.

she just added me on snapchat... is that a good sign?

>>17438209

Hey, be happy for another means of contact. Don't push it though, wait a few days to give her space. If nothing else you're in the middle of gaining a buddy, if you put any value in that.

>>17438209
go for other girls and forget about her. if she contacts you, be stay in contact. if you really want, ask her on a date in 1 or 2 weeks again. but stop thinking about her and invest time in finding another girl to date in the meantime

>>17437983
Oh shit, it wasn't an hour ago that I asked her out when I posted this, it was actually last night. I wrote this out and posted it last night when I was all depressed, but nobody was really on /adv/ at that time so I tried again today...

Just in case that time difference makes a difference.

Man, I really liked this girl too...

The way I see it, if she's not ignoring you, then you still have a chance.

>>17438766
Somehow, I don't think that's very good advice...