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Hey /adv/
Quick question...
How do you deal with bad habits your significant other does?
For instance
>gf lactose intolerant but gives no fucks
>loves milkshakes. Makes 1 pretty much a day, would have 2-3 if i didnt stop her
>complains about typical intolerance issues
>"anon, am i getting fat?"
>tbqh senpai, i tell her yeah. Just cut back on shakes
>"omg anon ur so mean!"
>mfw
Then:
>be me at bar with m8's
>have some cigs at the bar
>OMG ANON I CANT BELIEVE YOU WERE SMOKING THATS DISGUSTING LIKE LITERALLY THE GROSSEAT THING EVAR!!!
I can deal with her explosive road rage, but i cant let her schlop shakes all day and turn into a tub of lard. Like i love the girl but damn... Double standard or nah?
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>>17434550
I don't think it's really possible to change others unless you are absolutely amazing and they think you are a god descended to the mortal realm.
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>>17434560
Not change, just cut back.
She knows how they make her feel but continues to do it to herself.
Like i dont wanna enable, but i dont wanna be the bearer of bad news either...
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>>17434565
It's a sort of a double standard for both of y'all. You don't want her to be ugly and she doesn't want you to die of cancer or whatever.
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Get her to make fruit smoothies instead so it's healthier. No ice cream, no milk
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>>17434550
>How do you deal with bad habits your significant other does?
from my experience , you can't really CHANGE them
so
you either deal with them, and or the person has enough empathy/understanding that they try to adapt to your preference
or
you leave IF it gets to an unbearable level
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