>be me
>fem, nearly 30
>me and my bf are together for 6 years
>I find out he was cheating on me
>told him we are over, he was like: OK
>1 month later, I'm moving away from our flat. He says I don't wanna lose you anon...
>I already gave up my job, found a new place. I told him we will still talk.
>I was the one who initiated the conversations but I felt he was lazy responding
>ask him if he is sure he wants to get back together? Does he need time to think?
>he tells me maybe in the future... but now I should go and meet others
>WTF?
>he was my first bf ever, I thought this was special. Now we didn't talk for 3 days now.
Is this already over and I'm just acting retarded?
>I find out he was cheating on me
>ask him if he is sure he wants to get back together? Does he need time to think?
>acting retarded
you answered your own questions
> told him we are over
> he was like: OK
> is this already over?
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
>>17426259
Have some fucking dignity and do not get back together with him. Block him on all social media accounts and phone numbers. Buy a great dildo and masturbate furiously to depraved porn.
Being alone is not as bad as you think it is.
He was your one and only relationship so naturally you are desperate. Be strong. It's over. Cut it off. Don't look back. Start looking at new guys. Go on dating sites and tinder. You will find guys who are far better than him in every way and then realize just what a loser you were dating.
Thanks adv, I think I will have to face reality.
>>17426259
>I already gave up my job
This is the only part that's really retarded.
Can you survive until you've found an other job?
The rest is a bit teenage dramaish, but you'll survive that. It's strange, but many couples have issues after 5 years or so, it's pretty common.
>>17426259
>Is this already over and I'm just acting retarded?
Yes.
>>17426353
It's fine I have plenty of savings, thanks. I will figure it out it was just confusing I guess relationship endings are more clear if you are watching them from outside