ITT: General questions that don't need their own thread

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Cause /fa/ is dead. What do you think of these shoes?
I didn't know they were patent and am usually wear very blend in clothes. I don't know how to feel about these.
>inb4 dont care about what other people think

>>17412185
Only care about what you think.

Why do bitches love kayaking so much and when did this become a thing?

>>17412205
It's fun; 2068 BC.

would taking six classes be too much for a college semester? two of those are labs. i dont know anything about college. please be gentle desu

>>17412205
It's fun, you sperglord.

Get out, rent a kayak and do it with some friends.

>>17412267
If quarter system, yes, definitely yes.

If semester, then also yes.

Ok. I know this is a long shot, but here I go!
Bought a house last October. It was built in 1959, but seemed in pretty good shape. Both bathrooms have this lavish tile that goes up to about the level of the light switches. Reminded my of something you would see in a fancy hotel.

Now I am wondering if it was put there to hide a problem.
Water leaks out of random places in the wall intermittently. It will go months without happening, and then wet floors. It's not always the same place. Sometimes it's from the corner behind the toilet, sometimes from the floor by the TP roll, sometimes from the base of the toilet.

I am fucking terrified, because I feel like to even diagnose it, you would have to rip out the tile and the wall, and both bathrooms are back to back. In the Master Bath, the water comes only from the base of the toilet (which I know is pretty fixable) and only rarely.

I know very little about this shit beyond what I see in Property Brothers episodes. If this is a $10k problem, there is absolutely no way we can pay for it!

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anyone know where I can get an original Rhodesian flag in good condition?

>>17412295
ebay.

>>17412286
Did you not think that owning a house might entail having to make repairs it or something?

>>17412314
Well, we had a good savings until my brother in law died. Despite 4 other siblings, one living parent, and a sizable gofundme we got 0$ from, we shelled out the entire bill for the funeral, so our savings pretty much got wiped.

>>17412205
It's fun, it's outside, it's exercise. You can also fish from a kayak. Or go camping. Or many other things.

>>17412286
Probably gonna need to pull the tiles mate, there's a leak in there somewhere. If it's coming though the plasterboard is probably already fucked anyway. You can do tiling and plasterboard repairs yoursefl and save a shitload of money. Could even do the plumbing if you wanted, or just get the plumber when you've got it stripped back.

>>17412205
i feel like this falls under the ask opposite gender thread

>>17412335
Thanks for making it sound like not so much of a big deal. Thinking about it we know a guy who could probably help us, either way it's going to be a lot of money, and a scary idea to possibly lose use of both bathrooms for however long this takes. The tiles used are big rectangular ones, probably 6x12 inches, do you think they would survive the ideal intact?

>>17412330
>>17412276
>>17412211
>It's fun
What rational, well-articulated responses.

But, really, what's made it so trendy? As a social event, it's inferior to canoeing; more people and actual room for beer. Canoeing is likely more cost-effective for a group as well. The canoe is just a more versatile option. Kayaking is just tubing for the people who think only rednecks go tubing.

>>17412340
>do you think they would survive the ideal intact?
Depends on how much you're willing to pay, but then it also matter what they used to install the tile. If it was done with cement, it might be an issue.

Good news is, tiling is one of the easiest things to do yourself.

>>17412340
They probably won't survive to be honest depends how well they be been glued on, and if the plasterboard just falls apart. You can often find large lots of tiles at auctions etc if you wanted to.get some cheaper.

You may also find you can remove the wall of just the one bathroom, get the plumbing fixed, redo that side, then do the other bathroom afterward. It would be very annoying to have them both out of action.

You will definitely be able to sort it out, heaps of tutorials on the internet for plasterboarding and tiling as well. There's always /diy/ if you get stuck as well.

>>17412419
Fuuuuuuuck. If we empty the savings, max out the cards, etc, etc, we might be able to save for this by winter break. And we were saving up to re-do the roof. I guess that will have to wait. #SadPanda.

As a fat neet, how can i become more sportive?

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>>17412349
Can you teach me how to buy a CANOOOOOEEEE~!?

>>17412465
Alright bud heres what worked for me.
>start running
>wtf am i doing
>run ends
>hate myself
>feel healthier though
>run again
>hate this
>run ends
>the pain means its working right?
After about a week or two of running every other day you start craving it. Running is the base to all sports.

>>17412302
ebay only has shit reproductions.

Recently discovered that my Girlfriend has Anorexia.

She says she doesn't want help at the moment, which I'm trying to respect. But, it drives me nuts that she's trying to lose more weight when she's already healthy.

I don't think it would be wise to force her to get professional help, because she doesn't want it, I'm just worried and it's quite depressing that I'm unable to help.

What do I do? Is there anything I can do to help her through this?

I kissed a person with asymptomatic herpes a handful of times. What are the chances I'm fucked?

So I started college late after sorting out some various brain problems. The problem is I'm now 24 and surrounded by people often still in their teens. I don't really click with them because we're in different phases of our life, and I'm pretty lost on how to proceed. People have suggested meetup in the past, but I failed to ever find anything that kept my interest on there locally.

>>17412624

You probably have asymptomatic herpes yourself. Most of us do.

I've turned 27 and I'm still too terrified to lose my virginity, as soon as I consider being alone with someone it gets me thinking they want to kill me and it's only worse if there would be a person in the next room or something like that.

>>17413021
My question I guess is what exactly do I say to a doctor, someone told me to get medical help

>>17412441

It sounds like you bought a house that was too expensive for your income.

If every major problem is going to have you saving up for months and years plus taking on bad debt, you are going to be foreclosed sooner or later.

I would, very seriously, advise you to sell the house and buy something that is cheaper.
Your story is like how new motorists buy a BMW but cannot afford to keep it running

>>17412650
Im not sure if this is the same but when i was a senior in high school, a lot of my friends were freshmen or sophomores. And I feel 14 year olds are different from 18 years olds.
Just remember those kids are just people. Stop thinking they can't have a good conversation or be friends because you're older. Theyre in college because they're intelligent and can probably carry a conversation

>>17412507

A forcible admittance to the psych ward that specializes in anorexia will help her much much more than no help at all.
You run the risk that she will never have kids because she turns sterile, there are a whole host of ailments she can get that will fuck her health in the long run, there is no good excuse to not force her into treatment.

If she was cutting herself or damaged herself, you would probably have no issue with forcing her to rcieve treatment, anorexia is also self harm, view it like that

UK anons: if I go to A&E to get stitches, do they inform parents if you're over 18 or just treat you without further information? Also do they call a shrink?

Also, how difficult is it to stitch a cut up yourself? Anyone tried before?

>>17413134

No they won't
No I haven't and you shouldn't either

Gt it cleaned and stiched and stop with your cutting faggotry

girl here. if i ask my older friend if it is ok to talk to my older coworkers of the opposite sex on facebook (no flirting), would she think of me as stupid?

>>17413249
Yes. Why would you even ask her?

>>17413400
I dont know if this is inapprorpiate. I dont want my coworker to think that i am using this as an excuse to "get to know him better"

>>17412624
Kek, you've probably had asymptomatic herpes long before you kissed the person.

Was I in an abusive friendship?

I had a lady friend who apparently took out her anger at my other friend at me. She would go beyond buddy banter and would have mean insults like "Do will never get a girlfriend" "You're a loser" "You're stupid" etc. almost everyday. She also would never give thanks when I did nice things like helping her with bags and stuff and never returned the favor.

The reason of my skepticism is that I have a hard time with criticism. I already have low self esteem and I take things too personal sometimes.

So was this emotionally abusive? Or did I need a thicker skin and just take this as banter?

>>17412185

They look really nice. If you like them and can afford them go for it. In the end they are only shoes and if you feel uncomfortable wearing them in public just wear them less initially to get used to them and then you should feel confident wearing them regularly

>>17413673

Yes

But you deserved it for being a beta orbiter

Gonna attempt to become an hero soon. Would toaster in tub be a feasible method? If so, any tips to give for me when doing it?

Am pretty antisocial guy who spends most of his time indoors. Is networking through the few people I know the only way to get in contact with a dealer? Is using silk road or whatever worth using the effort instead of being social?

>>17412173

Why can i not stop eating?

>>17413709
I agree that I did deserve it.

But does it count as being a beta orbiter if I didn't have an attraction to her?

>>17413773

Yes.

>>17413773
Yes

>>17413788
>>17413789
Huh, interesting.

Well there's another reason to loathe myself

>>17413735
Try adding more fiber to your diet or see a doctor

>>17412465
Maybe use your brain for a start. Just a thought

>>17413729

> go to dancing club that plays electronic music/pop
> look curiously at people
> a dealer will approach within 15 mnutes

>>17412295
ask /k/, I'm sure they know.

>>17412185
They look like nice enough to go with most clothing desu. White shoes are mostly a summer/ beach thing. Make sure to keep them clean, nothings worse than a dirty white sneaker.

But as always, dress for yourself and no one else.

What should I engrave into my calculator?

>>17413952
Your favorite meme.

How do I actively get over him? We were in a relationship for 18 months and he took my virginity.. Its been over a year since I broke up with him, because we had too many arguments and I was in a different relationship after I broke up with him. But I still cant get him out of my head I dont understand why.
Anyone here who can help me out? It just feels wrong..

>>17413729
go out in some club you will probably meet one there. depends on what you want and if you want it on a regurlar basis

>>17412173
How much capital do I need for a startup in commercial animation?

I don't feel any adrenaline from porn anymore unless I go a week without fapping. Anybody know if fapping without porn ruins this "reboot"?

>>17413997

By finding a new one, it's the only thing that works, and you will always rate relationships comparing them to the first.

It's normal, it's part of growing up, do not fret.

i'm >>17413717 pls help

>>17414055

No, you will feel strongly aroused from porn again even if you fap and only use imagination.

It's also good to vary, and your fantasy arousals can be very strong if you give it a chance

>>17414055
That's never happened to me before. Maybe you're seeing too much of the same material and you're becoming bored?

I'm 30 and just have up videogames. what other pastimes or interests could I get into with minimum cash and mobility?

>>17414041
Depends highly on where you live. how much help the government gives you and how good your skills are.

>>17414063
Unless you have some really old and really shitty toaster it's not going to work. Even then, unless you have a really high current, it's going to be really painful.
Obligatory try-to-get-some-help part:
Really consider calling a suicide hotline.

>>17414080
Thanks. That's pretty much the only method available for me rn, so I'm gonna have to wait a while.

>>17414063
no one wants to ladle virgin stew out of your bathtub.
just go walk in traffic. at least then they can use DRY-SWEEP© Earth's Best Absorbent!

>>17414063

Call the suicide prevention hotline, get help yourself you spineless wanker

>>17414089
i don't wanna permanently scar/inconvenience the person who is unfortunate enough to run me over though

>>17414084
If you decide to get a gun, remember that it's easy to fuck up. A decent amount of people shoot their temple and mess it up, leaving them blinded and/or mentally handicapped.
The 'easiest' ways to go besides that would be jumping in front of a train, which is a dick move though, and jumping from a really high bridge. The deceleration from impact would very likely kill you and you don't make as much of a mess (still not absolutely unproblematic).

>>17414095
You're very likely going to mentally scar someone, even if you don't have any family or friends. Even only seeing someones innards/remains is really traumatic for most people. I am again going to tell you, call a suicide hotline.

>>17414072
It happened because I escalated into some fairly niche and specific kinks that anything less does nothing for me

I still get that rush when I find a new video of my fetishes, but that's just a few times a year at this point because they're uncommon.

Trying to fap to a video I've already seen only gets me going if I abstain for a while.

>>17414095
>>17414115
Also, consider that there is almost nothing that has a 100% chance of killing you. Even if you aim a shotgun at your head, there's still a small chance that you're going to survive.

>>17414080
I live in Maryland. I can get gibbe dats for a LLC?

Essentially I thought of just running it online. Essentially, I'd find jobs people want done that require multiple skills set. Pay artist A for X and pay artist B for Y, put it together myself and keep the remainder.

>>17414129
I know, but I still want to try.

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Anyone got a recommendation for a cheap ($50 max, preferable more in the 20-30$ range) vibrator that's lowest speed isn't fucking jackhammer?

I've got a very sensitive vag and every one I've bought is always too powerful to use directly.
>Pic related.

What are some general, casual flirting tips you can apply on someone who's friends with you without being weird or unconfortable?

>>17414151
Have you tried your cellphone's vibrating function? It's not the best thing in the planet but it made me giggle and call it a day.

>>17414151
I bought one from shevibe for like 20ish bucks. It had a decent range of settings and nothing too insane. Their shipping is also very discrete.

>>17414151
Something like a decade ago I got one that was usb-powered and its intensity was controlled by a driver that was coded in C++ with the source code accessible.

It was pretty neat actually; you could code simple loops and shit to make it pulse in waves. Was actually really tame at its lowest power and you could fine tune it as much as you wanted.

>>17414194
With all the "we gotta get women into coding!" shit, why is this not coming back?

>>17414175
My phone would be way too awkward to try to toggle the volume on and off to make it vibrate. Plus I think getting pussy juice on my phone is a good way to not only ruin it but also get some sort of infection. Phones are grosser than doorknobs and money man, loootts of germs on em.
>>17414184
You know what the model was?
>>17414194
Damn that sounds kinda neat. I'm literally computer retarded though, idk if I'd even know how to learn to use it.
>>17414205
Kek, this is a good point.

>>17414227
wrap your phone in something lol

>>17414239
Again though, I have a blackberry priv. It's a giant ass phone, I have tiny hands, and the volume controls are hard enough to hit when I'm just holding it normally.
Plus the idea of "bzt-nothing-bzt-nothing-bzt" every other half second doesn't sound like a fun time to me anyways.

>>17414250
There are applications that allow you to turn on constant vibration for some period.

>>17414268
Covered or not I would still feel very weird about putting something that was once on my pussy up to my face. I don't want to use my phone for something like this, I'd rather just have an actual vibrator designed for masturbation.

>>17414275
I assume your not too fond of blowjobs then?

You also might want to consider going to an adult shop. You can still buy the stuff online afterwards, if it's cheaper.

>>17414284
Not really lol, I don't find them all that enjoyable or erotic. I suck dick solely for my partner's sake. And I would never suck a dick that was just inside me a few minutes ago anyways. So doing something I already find weird for myself and nobody else is kind of dumb and unproductive.
I'm far too autistic, shy, and paranoid to buy a vibrator in person. I've got a career that if anyone I knew ever saw me in a sex store it would be grounds for me to lose my job and never find another one ever again. Pressure's too high for me to be a perfect saint.
But if I got desperate enough I probably will. I ain't quite that desperate though, the shit I have does the job, I just have to wrap it in a hand towel and use it with both pants and panties on for it to be dull enough to enjoy.

That's why I figured I'd ask for recommendations because "low intensity" is not a normal selling point on these kinds of things so sellers don't usually put it on the description. Kind of have to go word of mouth if I'm buying online.

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>>17414275
wrap your phone with a condom

>>17414275
Wrap your puss with bubble wrap.

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>>17414063
take control of your life, stop wallowing in your self pity. you're stronger than this and you don't want to actually die, you want things to stop being hard.

you will feel nothing but absolute despair the moment you see your death rushing towards you and then you will realize how tiny all your problems are in retrospect to not existing.

>>17414073
I'm in the same boat, I can't play them any more without getting irritated and thinking I'm wasting my time (which I am, and I now realize).

I spend a lot of time volunteering at wolf shelters, studying a different language to get ready to travel, studying criminology (it's extremely interesting), and also learning about old beliefs including scrying, divination etc. (of course it's not real, but a lot of the stuff is interesting).

>>17414427
that's cool man. I'm proud of you.

I want to teach myself to program. any particular language that is beginner friendly?

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How do I deal with an insane older sibling that fights and starts drama weekly? Mind you, I can't escape it. I lock my door but she'll text bomb me, fuck with my garden and other stuff. She's at the level to where she has destroyed property or vandalized things to try and start fights between people in the house.

I'm living at home and will be for a year or so until I pay off things. Right now I don't feel safe and any attempt to persuade my mom to kick her out is met with 'but she's muh baby'. This is despite my sister stealing from my mom and messing with her stuff too.

Should I just kill her? I'm at the level to where crushing her windpipe is a joyful thought.

>>17414551
cobra, java c++ what do you want to run windows?

>>17414776
I don't have much experience with other OS'

>>17414764
For fucks sake move out of your goddamn parents house then. Idc how poor you are, if you're seriously that pissed about her and if you think she's that insane then just get the fuck out of there. Surely you have a friend you can crash with, or I'm willing to bet you can find a cheap ass apartment/room you can afford to rent somewhere in a shitty neighborhood.
And if you're seriously telling me you have -1000 dollars to your name, then tell your mom you'd rather live in a homeless shelter than put up with this shit. See which child she picks, if you're clearly not just as insane as she is.
Or call the fucking cops on her. Seriously, I'm not even joking. Next time she fucks with your personal shit, film it/get evidence, then call the damn cops and threaten to sue the bitch for damages.

I bought a buttplug and I want to take it back with me home, however sex toys are illegal in my home country and I can get imprisoned for life for having something like that, being male. What should I do? How do I go about smuggling it? Should I wear it the entire time? Also, most of the times you dont get searched when entering my country seeing as to European airport security is good enough for them. But sometimes they search you and your luggage.
Should I just say fuck it and wear it or send it in my luggage? What if they open up my luggage for it? What do I tell my mom? It's for my friend's girlfriend?

>>17414227
>You know what the model was?
I tried searching for it but I guess it's not for sale anymore? This was a couple of years ago, but I still recommend that website. Found it under the traditional vibrator section of the site.

I fucked up and lost my roommates check to me for her half of the bills. This has never happened to me before, and I've only been renting with someone else for a year now.
Idk what the social protocol on this would be, should I just apologize and ask her to void the check and write me a new one? I know she may have to pay something to cancel a check with her bank, which I'll gladly take out of what she owes me. Or is that a dick move all together and I should just suck it up and eat the lost money since I'm responsible for it being lost in the first place? It was kind of a lot for a broke college girl like me to just lose, but I'm fully willing to take responsibility for my fuck up if that's the right thing to do.
I'm just not sure what the responsible thing to do here is since I'm the one who fucked up.
>I'm too new to adulthood man.
What would you do in my shoes?

I'm in love.
They live too far to make this happen.
Can't into long-term relationships, i've tried.
How do i get over them, while staying as their friend? Is this shit possible?
This whole affection bullshit is really annoying to me.

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Is college a good place to try making new friends or should I keep my nose down and just get my shit done?

How do I convince a friend to leave a pyramid scheme?
Internet is telling me to leave them be and make them learn their mistakes or leave an imprint that won't push them further.

There's a girl I work with that I'm interested in. Last weekend we went bowling, had some real talk and also some fun.
Today we repeated that, but also hung out in the arcade for a while, and then went to a movie together. It was basically a date, but neither of us could say the word date.
I feel like she's into me, but she has said previously (in unrelated talk) that she isn't looking for a relationship in general.

I feel like I'm stuck. If I push and she doesn't want to, I could make a really good friendship weird. But if I don't say anything, nothing might happen at all.
How do I go about letting her know I'm interested in "more than friends"?

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How do I start conversation with people? I want to be able to keep it up and all that. Also how do girls view a guy that comes up to them and starts talking to them? How do I go about that if I wanna get her number?

>>17415699
If it's a party or other social gathering, stand on the outskirts of a group of people talking. Find something relevant to say. Look up the wikihow article "how to have fun at parties" obviously not strictly advice about parties.

Just got out of a 3 year relationship, only relationship I've ever been in, I'm looking to avoid crazies, what should I avoid in a woman?

>>17412650
I'm the same, m8
It's been a year since I started college. I'm 25.
My advice:
- Keep in mind that college is mostly for learning and graduating for a lil piece of paper. Meeting people is nice but shouldn't be what makes you like or not your choice of career. There are other activities where you can meet people (hobby / sport / going out / any temp job / etc). Look into time management if you feel you've run out of time-table space.
- Try not to give it importance that you're in another phase. Forget about your age and talk to people just for the sake of it, without worrying much about anything. I know it's hard, firsthand. But when I really realised that age is merely a number I started feeling more comfortable in uni and in general.
- Ultimately this is not as important as it might seem to be right now. Barely anything ever is. So treat it as fun little puzzle or something

Where can I torrent now that kat.cr is down?

>>17415716
Never date a cutter for starters. That's a whole bundle of problems you don't need to fix.

What are signs that you're depressed?

I always feel tired, no matter how much sleep I seem to get. I have a harder time than normal falling asleep these days. I have days where my mind is always in a bad place. While I know it's not something I'll do I default to "Kill myself" whenever I keep bringing up cringy stuff I've done. (Some of which is probablly not even cringy, my mind just makes me hate myself for no good reason.)

>>17415734
That's on my list, my ex was one. I'm just happy to avoid being domestically assaulted. She would just start punching me while I was asleep and once stabbed me with a potato peeler in the leg

>>17415741
Pretty much what you're discribing. http://depressionhurts.ca/en/checklist/
Do that, if it's depression then see a doctor

>>17415741
Sounds more like anxiety mixed with depression really. Seek professional help. You're beyond Internet advice.

Alright guys I need someone to calm me down, my girl told me she hasn't had her period yet (it's been 29 days) and although we didn't even have sex I'm still worried as fuck. I fingered her after she jerked me off and I'm worried a little bit of cum or something went to my hand and maybe just maybe to my finger.

Still I fingered her like I don't know a minute? And it wasn't even much deep but still I'm kinda freaking out.

>>17413083
Tell them that. They've studied to understand and help people so don't worry about your problem not being well conveyed or anything like that.
Also, don't be afraid to say "the wrong thing" or whatever.
The first few sessions can be weird/awkward but If they're professionals you soon feel comfortable with them.
Make sure you go to a good therapist though. Otherwise it can be a waste of time.

>>17415746
The issue is money for that man. I have insurance but it's only the basic stuff work gives me. My understanding is that kind of help will be expensive. I make enough money to pay bills and feed myself with enough money left over to enjoy going out once and a while and treating myself to a new thing here and there.

>>17415754
It doesn't work like that. It is almost impossible that she's pregnant.
She is ONE day late. It happens. Take a pregnancy test if you want to stay relaxed.

>>17412465
Find something you like to do and do it often.

If it's something you hate you won't do it.
When you do the activity you like you'll see changes in your mind and body and eventually that's what will drive you through the return of procrastination we all inevitably face.

>>17415756
Talk to your doctor about seeking government aid for it then. If you have a legit mental health issue, then there's no shame in seeking help in a moment of need.

This seems like a useless thread, given how few answers are being given here.

>>17414947
The fuck. You tell her you lost the check BECAUSE SOMEONE ELSE MIGHT FIND IT AND CASH IT. Are you stupid? Ask her to cancel the old one and write you a new one. Let her know you'll pay whatever the bank fee is (you can call her bank and ask them what that is).

>>17415637
Sure, great place to make friends. This isn't an either/or choice where making friends means you can't get your shit done. Getting your shit done should be your priority, but don't let that be an excuse.

>>17415651
You can't make people be not stupid. Sorry man. You can explain how it works, but a lot of dumb people have to learn things the hard way. Young dumb people especially since they have a tendency to separate reality from what they want reality to be.

>>17415678
Hold her hand. If she withdraws, she's not interested. If she holds your hand, she may be interested in physical intimacy even if she's not wanting a relationship.

Whether or not the failure to move to a romantic relationship (or whatever) makes your friendship "weird" depends a lot on your personalities.

>>17415699
Depends on the context. If it's a setting where socialization is expected, I just smile and introduce myself. And who gives a fuck if someone is going to be receptive or not? You can't read minds. If they're not interested in talking to you, no big deal, go talk to someone else.

>>17415716
People who say crazy shit, are crazy, though that's pretty obvious. Not so obvious are the ones who try to get too close too fast.

>>17415754
Don't worry. I don't think what you're imagining is possible, and if it is it might be an insanely low chance. In any case, simply wait. Periods fluctuate like that.
Don't think/do anything weird. Talk to your grill if need to but it's alright man. Distract your mind

>>17415766
I'll have to figure out how to make a doctor appointment. Can't go to the doctor I went to while I was on my parents insurance as they're Kaiser doctors and don't have that anymore.

>>17415760
>>17415773
Thanks guys, it really helps. It's 4am and I've been just fueling my mind for about an hour.

Has anyone else had the problem of walking on their toes? Not like full blown but generally placing your foot from the top first then down? I know its a weird question but ever since I was a little kid Ive done it unknowingly and people definitely notice. Im even starting to build up some serious callous on the upper side on the bottom of my foot.

>>17415637
college is a time to study and make friends. if you're going to be a freshman you should make friends. 4 years is a long time to just keep your nose down.
>>17415651
it depends how far into it they are. show them the always sunny episode where sweet dee gets caught in a reverse funnel system.
>>17415678
she probably already knows.

>>17412267
Thats a lot of fucking classes but I guess it depends if you have a job and how easy the classes are. I can breeze through writing/history classes but give me a math class and a good 80% of my semester time is going towards it.

>>17415799
I've noticed a couple kids at my high school walk like that. My mother is a NICU nurse so I asked if it was due to a birth defect. According to her, premature babies are pricked on their feet a lot to test for something, i forgot what, and they later have a hard time acclimating to walking on their heels again.

>>17415808
Two of those classes are for ROTC though. One class a week and one 3 hour lab a week.

If I only take the recommended four that means only two of my classes would count towards my major.

>>17415814
Ah that would explain a lot. I was born prematurely and had to stay in one of those tanks for a long time. Guess im just fucked then lol. Thanks anyways.

>>17415818
Again if you dont have a job I dont think the classes are what you'll have to worry about but the homework. I mean if you think you can do it go for it. Just dont expect to have much free time.

>>17415819
Just curious, are you able to walk on your heels at all? Or is it just awkward?

>>17415831
No I can and its not really awkward. Its more instinct. I dont even know Im doing it usually until someone points it out. If I were to actually monitor how much Id do it Id guess its about 50/50.

I'm 20 and my gf is 16 (she is past the age of consent in my country)
We are together since one week ago and she already want to have sex
She is not a virgin and it's possible she had more sex than I did

I have that small fear that if something goes wrong in our relationship, she accuse me of rape or being a pedo
She's head over heel for me though, can I trust her ? How can I protect myself ?

>>17415986
Past the age of consent? How could you get in trouble if you fucked her?

Or do you mean under the age of consent?

>>17415994
She is older than the age of consent but still a minor

>>17413717
Of course not, the fuse/safety will go.

>>17416017
Then I don't see a problem. If you're that worried, save some texts that would incriminate her if she were to cry foul.

>>17414073
How can you be 30 and have no money and no car? Go for a walk, and get a job.

I have a nice beard. If I shaved my chest hair would it look weird?

Looking to buy a Hands Free Masturbator to help reduce carpel tunnel. Any suggestions? Max price I'm willing to give up is around $100 and none of those chunks of ass or torso fuck toys, need it discreet so guests won't suddenly find it.

>>17414881

Living on my own isn't really an option due to my financial situation (less than 1g to my name). Been applying to other jobs so I might be able to afford to move out but no word yet. No friends in the area to crash with so I'm stuck here.

I've been tinkering with cameras and set up some security feeds/recording pointing toward some of my stuff she's messed with outdoors. If she does anything now I'll catch her and use it. I think I'll just talk to my mom too, maybe deliver an ultimatum as you said. I'm seriously sick of living like this.

>>17416053
But a fleshlight and stick it between your mattress or couch cushions.

>>17416046
yeah, just don't do that period unless you're pretty ripped

>>17416064
What about trimming it

Guys: Say if you were German, and a girl approached you asking if you speak German, would you assume that she was flirting with you or looking for German conversation partners?

Any tips on getting rid of wharts? I have two fairly painful wharts on my feet. I know soaking/nail filer. Just seeing if anyone has any extra tips.

>>17415755
Go to both or just a therapist? I will once I move but my mom and her boyfriend are burning all the styrofoam in the house how the fuck do I tell them they are so fucking stupid their temporary personal problems do lasting damage?

>>17416339
Get a can of "air duster". Get a q tip/cotton tip. Cut one tip of the q tip, stick the stick bit into the air duster nozzle outlet. Mask off the skin around the warts with bandaids or similar.

Turn the can upside down, apply the q tip cotton bit to the wart, and gently press the air duster nozzle button. Modulate it so you only get a bit coming out, you will get liquid coming out that will evaporate and freeze the wart. You want the wart to go white.

May have to do it a couple of times over a week or so, but the wart will die. Works better than getting the doctor to do it with liquid nitrogen.

>>17416351
>burning all the styrofoam in the house

What

I keep having sex dreams about my boyfriend's friend. We've been dating for 3 years and the dreams have been going on almost as long. They stopped for a while after he stopped hanging out with us but after we've started hanging out more as a group they're returned. Should I just avoid this guy 100% is this a bad sign for my relationship? I mean IRL I would never date him, he has a record and lives with his parents, but he's attractive and funny so I think that causes the dreams. My boyfriend also has been wanting sex less so it's been making these dreams more frequent. What worries me is that they are never about him. I don't want to bring it up and cause problems but how should I handle it

being counseled by someone two years older than you

is this really gonna work. like honestly.
shes female, and we have different back grounds. only thing we have in common is that we went to school together.

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>>17415801
>4 years is a long time to just keep your nose down.
It sure is. Don't make my mistake, make friends.

>>17416351
Psychologist vs. psychiatrist?
I'd suggest both if you can have that.
Otherwise get one session with a psychiatrist and they'll tell you if it's better that you start with a psychologist for some months fist or whatever they think best. Again make sure you're dealing with professionals.
Therapy with a psychologist gives you long lasting effects but it can be hard and slow. Treatment with drugs is faster but it's roughly more of a patch-like solution. Combining both can be faster and effective but unnecessary in most cases. Get a session of either and see what they tell you.

Also,
>>17416468

>>17416185
No

That web thing that is under your tounge has a small hard bump on it. Should I be concerned

>>17416587
The thing that expels saliva?

>>17416587
Might just be herps (or a cold sore for those of you who want to pretend it's not herpes like 80% of the population has anyways.)
It'll go away after a while.

>>17414950
bump?

>27 in a week
>dead end wageslave job, though have a 2.2 maths degree from 5 years back
>live in a gentrifying part of london
>no (real) friends
>social skills of a dead fish
>not white - not exactly a problem persay
>only hobby is vidya and telly
>kv as well
I realise my social standing will never improve so...

What are my options in persuing a career that does not make me want to kill myself?

>>17416657
I'm not a britbong so idk how your shit all works over there, but are there just no jobs in your degree field? Or is a "2.2 maths degree", whatever that means, not a good degree?
If the latter you might as well go back to school. You don't have to pay out the ass and go into crippling debt like us amerifats right? (correct me if I'm wrong in that I genuinely don't know). If the former, idk aren't there jobs that are better than wageslaves that will accept any degree? America has some jobs like that at least, as long as you prove you're "educated" that's good enough for them even if it isn't your field per se.

>>17416657
Anything you want. A college degree like yours, where you have not used it for a specific career path, is still valuable to employers who need someone who can follow the rules and be a reliable worker. The sky is the limit. You just have to get your foot in on the ground floor somewhere.

Apply everywhere. Any kind of office job in any kind of field (within reason, obviously don't apply for an engineering job or something specific). Throw out CVs to every listing you find. You may get a call back from a marketing firm. Or a medical lab who needs entry level techs. Or a job as office manager of a lumber yard. Who the hell knows? Just throw yourself out there and see who wants you. You won't know what you love to do until you try doing a bunch of things.

Keep doing this process over and over again until you find the job with a career path/upward mobility that you like.

I'm working a job I'm scared of doing and I just signed up for 2 full days of it right after training that I'm afraid I'll dail. Should I hope for the best or try to find a way out of it? I'll reply back next break. Its a forklift job by the way.

>>17416698
Why are you scared of it? Scared of injury?
Only thing I have to say is you made a commitment man, and part of adulthood is honoring your commitments no matter how much you come to hate it. If you bail you'll just look like a fucking irresponsible child and will probably put the company/your coworkers in a bad spot. Do what you have to, and if you still hate it then quit when it's appropriate to do so and give your boss proper notification. Do the right thing anon.

>>17412173
I'm going to be starting college in 2 weeks. I'm 25, will I be looked at like a weirdo to other college kids? Cause I'll be stuck in classes with mainly 18 year olds

>>17416675
>2.2

It's like a C grade pass.

>>17416767
Oh, so like, he has a maths degree but passed it with a C?
Weird, we don't usually attach our gpas to our degree titles lol.
Well even still I feel like a math degree should be open to a lot of jobs, what's the job market like over there in the U.K, you all have an overstock of mathematicians or something. If so consider traveling, the U.S can't seem to get enough of them. (Though with the upcoming shitstorm of an election maybe you wouldn't want to, I know I'm trying to jump ship myself.)

Any decent place to learn how to draw? I'm sorta decent with pixel art, but I really want to get into drawing.

>>17416680
I fear I don't really have the personality to move up or get in a proper career. My wageslave job is near some offices and most people seem to be outgoing to the point where everyone is drunk by 9pm on a weekday.

>>17415771
>hold her hand.
That... Might just do the trick.

>>17416906
Check out /ic/'s sticky. Also, ask around there. There's a beginners thread and the board is pretty cool.

Drawing is mostly patience and discipline. And it's FUN af. But you probably know that already. There are almost infinite sources to learn from but they all ultimately boil down to how much you are willing to invest in this. Well, like with any art/craft

>>17416906
It's mostly about practice. Use photo references, take your time, and draw exactly what you see (not what you want to see).

Get some decent materials and check out other people's work online. But honestly, it's all about daily practice.

I have an idea for a documentary.
I could finance it on my own.

If I don't monetize the video as I put it on YouTube, could I use any music I want?
I wan't to learn some video editing, what's a good way to start?
I use linux so what video editing software would you recommend?

If I do this it'll be online in 2019 for free.

>>17415771
>BECAUSE SOMEONE ELSE MIGHT FIND IT AND CASH IT
Yeah but doesn't that theoretically only hurt me? Even if I never told her, she would have just thought I had the money if someone else cashed it. Like, either way she's expecting to lose 60$ because that's what she owed me. Whether I cash it or someone else does, she loses 60$ either way. If someone else cashes it and takes the money, that only means I'm out 60$ I was expecting to take in provided I don't ask her to reimburse me a second time (which I wouldn't). Only I'm losing money here, provided I never tell her.
I'm going to tell her I lost it, but I was mainly asking if I should even bother asking for a second check, if eating that $60 is the proper punishment for losing the check.

How do I concentrate on studying. Currently in library right now but I can't seem to concentrate at all? I used to be an extraordinarily good student in my undergrad. But right now I can't even mug up two definitions. I keep staring at the book and my mind keeps drifting off. Anyone in a similar position?

I'm interested in someone but I'm the one to always initiate a conversation via text or chat is that a clear sign that she's not interested in me? Should I stop?

>>17416723
I almost ran over the trainer during training and so we both agreed to put me in another department. I'm happy I managedto hang in there that long. Best part is that the department isn't packing and my schedule should be the same.

>>17417129
No. As a girl, i do this because I dont want to come off as clingy. It could be like that. If shes sending back one word messages, shes not interested

>>17417075
No you can still get a copyright claim. Just use music from soundcloud.

>>17417101
Yeah most people are! When it happens to me I set a timer of say 10 minutes where I can do whatever (mainly mindless browsing on here). When it ends I set another one where I committedly study. I concentrate more easily here because I know when the timer ends I can leisure back again.
Write down the thoughts that distract you, think about them later in break time. Lastly, gradually increase the study timer. It gets easier after a few of them.
Look up "pomodoro technique". It's kinda what I've described here. There's a video on their main page, it's 2 minutes long and explains it pretty well.
Also, tell yourself that if you're gonna sit on front of the book, you're gonna read it (or ride it even) like you mean it. Otherwise you're wasting both study and leisure time.

>>17417196
Damn, I figured that. Thanks for replying. I know I didn't give a lot on information but do you think she'll ever be interested in me? Also, in the future should I just be blunt if I like a person?

>>17417206
So she was giving back one word replies?
I dont know if she will, all girls are different and i don't know her or context of this situation.
Being blunt can be a little off putting for a girl or anyone for that matter.

>>17417196
Someone I spoke to said that complementing someone is a weird way to start a conversation and that maybe she just doesn't know what to say next. I'm just gonna go with what you said and just don't chat with her anymore. It probably makes me look like an asshole but if she isn't interested now, why would she be later? There are other guys my age and her age that are making moves and living a comfortable life so it's not like I had a chance to begin with.

Has anyone ever gotten weight loss surgery?

can you rent out rooms for an hour at a time for sexy time? 70 bucks seems steep when im going to be there 15 minutes

>>17417342
Google search for "Hourly hotels/motels" in your area. They do still exist, but they are harder to come by, also do not expect quality lol.

>>17417342
>>17417457
Oh yeah, also keep in mind almost every one I've ever seen requires a credit card and for you to be 21, for whatever reason 18 isn't good enough. So if you're underage you'll have a harder time.

I broke up with my ex 5 months ago for a retarded reason, and I regreted it shortly after, but the damage is done. I know we will never be together again, but I wish I could talk to him and apologize, the problem is that he has been refusing to speak and has blocked me in every possible media. I truly miss him, but I know I'm a retard and it's my fault, I just want to say sorry for being a heartless bitch. What do I do? My last hope is to find him while walking on the street and try to talk to him, but we live in a big ass city so it's highly unlikely.

>>17417637
Stop being selfish and respect his decisio n.

How do you develop a social life?

I'm kind of a workaholic, finally gaining real professional success over the past year. I guess since I'm relatively normal, my mind is starting to want me to do things other than work, like meeting cool, interesting people and decent women. Don't really hang out with work mates or meet people at work, and the few friends I've made "naturally" (without making an active effort to meet people) have moved away. And I've never been the type of person to have much social success by putting in only minimal effort.

Are you just supposed to spend as much free time as you can stand out and about pursuing things that already somewhat interest you? Just go to bars and hang out, be cool and interesting/charming?Unfortunately, by main recreational pastimes are reading and being a bit of a cinephile, obviously not the most social activities.

If it helps, I live in a big city.

Any of you gone from professionally successful and bored in your free time to professionally successful with a decent recreational life?

I'm single for the first time in nearly 8 years. I didn't announce it or anything, but suddenly swarms of guys are up my ass (figuratively). Problem is I have absolutely no interest in another relationship, or casual sex.

So,
1) What signs am I giving to make these guys suddenly interested in me?
2) How do I stop giving those signals?
3) How do I politely turn these guys down in a way that won't make them feel shitty?

I'd use the "I'm not ready for a relationship" line, but my past experience with that line is that guys either get more aggressive, or they assume they aren't good enough and get really defensive.

>>17416752
Age doesn't matter, your age range you look is what matters.

>>17416752
Nope. 25 is young enough that you won't look noticeably different, which is what matters. If you look 35 or older, that would get people's attention.

If can actually be a positive if you're more assertive, confident, charming etc. than most 18-22 year olds.

If I change my whatsapp profile pic to a pokemon fanart, will the employer of my part time job judge me for liking that pokemon go game?

>>17418855
yes. holy crap that's incredibly unprofessional and churlish.

Anyone here uses LinkedIn? Can you individually message someone on LinkedIn?

If I tell my friends/acquaitances that I attend meetup.com events, will they think that I am attending them to meet guys? My uni doesn't organize any language exchange activities for the language I am interested in

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Is it normal to feel the same kind of apprehension talking to strangers online as I do in person?
I get really nervous talking to people I'm not already totally familiar and friendly with. My mind goes blank and I feel tense, I can't think of anything to say at all.

On 4chan it's okay, I guess because I'm anonymous but as soon as there's an identity attached to me and people know who I am communication is next to impossible, even on the internet.

Dutchfag here. Am I a douchebag for judging expats who do not speak Dutch?

Would receiving a rose from your S.O go down well with you?

>>17418970
Generally you're a douche if you judge anyone for something trivial. The language someone speaks is a trivial thing to get judgey about. Save your judgment for people who commit legitimate wrongs in the world, like violent criminals.

>>17418959
i'll admit it's not normal but a lot of people have issues when relating to other people, on and off line. the key, though, is to not give a fuck about the fact that they're strangers.

>>17418980
No. What the fuck, you nasty mother fucker.

>>17418952
Bump

>>17419084
They might. I would probably tease you about it but I wouldnt label you a whore especially if you explained it.

My girlfriend made a new account on reddit after receiving spam on her old account, I found out about her new account from snooping (I know, awful). It's the same as her old account but she has a greater tendency to call people out on the pick up subs and shit known for death/rape threats. She also isn't smart with information and I'm worried she could get doxxed. Is there a way to bring this up without seeming like I was snooping or invading her privacy? I really don't want her career or whatever to get fucked up because of the comments she's made that came back to her.

>>17419111
I don't want my peers to think that I have a fetish for foreign men ;-;

>>17419084
Lol no. Don't heaps of people do meetup things? I wouldn't think twice if someone told me that.

Lately, I started thinking about my exgf of one year again and about our breakup
Is it a good idea to ask her my questions ? We stayed friends until a month ago, when we stopped talking

>Traveling around another continent
>Talks about how I love it
>Everyone disagrees and ignores me
Was I being annoying?

Is it possible for a man in his 40s to become friends with a female coworker who is college aged? And I am talking about them being friends not "friends".

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What should I do?

>oct 2015
>friend met girl (A) on tinder, asks me to wingman (call him D)
>me and D + 3 girls (call them A, B and C, all friends)
>over the night we drink vodka/take weed

>as we get drunker A keeps telling me to flirt with C
>says C is lying about having a bf because C likes me
>C kinda denies it, then everyone said C and bf had a fight and split up
>we play spin the bottle, I kiss C as everyone else cheers me on

>friend D goes off with A, both tell me to go flirt with C
>B is quiet and didn't seem friendly, so I go with C
>sit with C, tells me that she thinks Im really nice
>we're both fairly drunk at this point, I didn't smoke much tho
>since D+A are busy and B is texting, I try to get in with C
>I think: "oh shit she's drunk I better get consent"
>ask her if she wants to, she says yes

>start fooling around with her, after a few mins she starts saying that she'll feel guilty cus of bf
>at this stage I'm so drunk that I'm not even really paying attention
>I think I rationalised that because half of what A said, was true (about C liking me)
>that the second part (C lying about bf) must also be true
>she kept saying she's going to feel guilty, whenever she did that I said: "but do you want me to"
>she always said yes then a bit later it would repeat.

>it clicked that maybe I should stop (just started fingering her)
>I stop, and shortly after she vomits
>I'm giving her tissues / holding her up / trying to help
>eventually everyone starts walking home
>girl C stops to piss against a wall in an alleyway
>girl A and B just laugh,
>say C does this stuff regularly (going out, getting drunk, getting with guys)

>get girls home, me and D not allowed in cus "no boys sleeping over"
>me and D spend whole night in cold cus trains stop at 12 and I aint calling parents
>next morning I message A, B, C to make sure they're ok
>talk briefly with C, she says she thinks I'm a nice guy but wishes we met under different circumstances

I feel guilty and scared

What do normies talk about?

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>>17419489
cont (hit word limit)

>messaging C, turns out she does have a bf (fuck)
>make sure she's ok
>says everythings fine, says she can't tell bf (thank fuck)
>we stop messaging, seemingly on good terms

>a few days pass, friend D has A and C as contacts, and wants to date A
>he's texting C randomly, she tells him she's going to tell her bf about what happened (fuck)
>C says she's going to tell bf I took advantage of her
>I'm panicking, thinking stuff like:
>fuck did I actually take advantage of her, am I a monster?
>am I going to jail, will everyone hate me now?
>but we were both drunk how could she put all the blame on me?
>she told me she thought I was nice and everything was good why is she doing this!?!

>friend and I message her trying to talk her out of it
>C doesn't change her mind
>she tells bf (oh fuck oh fuck)
>I get in contact with bf
>try to explain my side of the story, he doesn't want to hear any of it
>basically threatens to kill me ("you won't see me coming" stuff like that)
>calls me a creep, wants to kill me no matter what I say
>eventually I just apologize for getting in between them
>he eventually just says: "don't ever contact us again"
>haven't talked to them since oct last year
>I heard they split up,
>I want to work as a musician but Im worried if I get any public attention
>she'll go public and tell people I took advantage of her (I dont even know if I did)

I'm scared shitless and I dont know what to do, any advice?

I'm not a virgin, my girlfriend is a virgin. Both of us are Christian, she feels sex before marriage is wrong but I don't. Last time we were making out she got into it and we did some stuff short of sex, and afterwards she felt bad (I asked her if each of the things I did was okay before I did them, let her take her own shirt off, etc.).
Now I feel bad, but I'm not sure if it's because I feel bad through empathy because I really like this girl and don't want her to feel upset, or if I'm having a change of opinion on the morality of sex before marriage. How can I figure out which one, should I talk to a professional?

>>17414168
Answer this pls

>>17419552
Talk to A

have hair pulling disorder, live in uk, what do

>Traveling around another continent
>Talks about how I love it
>Everyone disagrees and ignores me
Was I being annoying?

Very weird question, has to do with a certain situation I'm in. Answer if you can.

If you knew your friend was attracted to you, and had a foot fetish, would you show off your feet for him? If you didn't like any of that, would you do your best to keep your shoes on? Finally, if somehow you caught that friend touching your feet, would you stop him, take off your socks, what?

Super weird, I know.

>>17419556
Neither of you should feel bad.

Sex is natural, and The Bible is old and outdated. If you're going to follow archaic shit like no pre-marital sex, you also should feel bad for eating shellfish, wearing mixed fabrics, and not stoning your wife to death the second she did something independent.

Tell your wife if she really feels pre-marital sex is morally wrong, the bible says to fucking stone her to death.

The Bible is old. Jesus's teachings are timeless, not The Bible's.

>The Bible is old. Jesus's teachings are timeless, not The Bible's.

Found the know-nothing edgy teen atheist.

Suggestion: read about exegesis, hermeneutics, literalism, prescriptive and descriptive scriptures, etc.

Then consider his girlfriend likely belongs to the 99.99% of Christians who understands most of the Bible isn't perspective, isn't supposed to be understood literally and that since basically its foundations, and due the huge influence of Hellenistic philosophy over it, Christian ethics and theology early incorporated critical reasoning, in particular from stoicism and platonism.

>>17420349

No. Not really, wouldn't change my behaviour. Would ignore while giving a raised eyebrow the first time, but sternly ask him what exactly he's trying to do if the situation persisted.

I see no reason to indulge my friends sexual fetishes; moreover if I don't even share them. Don't see what good can come out of it. Unnecessary complication.

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I'm a kid of upper-middle class parents'. How do I know or make sure that people around me are not envious? That's a retarded question, indeed, sometimes I feel shame of having possibilities and possessions my peers won't ever afford at this moment.

>>17420527
Fuck off skyfairy lover. You know religion was just used back in the day to control the proles right? It's only the stupid that continue to listen to a book nowadays.

>>17420901
I feel the same and I like that album even though all the tracks are basic as fuck.

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>>17420914
Yes, the album is pretty good, however, I like Com Truise more.

>>17420901
We're not jealous or envious of you have. We hate you. Because you have the pomp to ask questions like this, we hate you.

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How do I make friends in college if I failed to do so in my freshman year?

Going to a community college and looking to transfer. Finance-focused and great at math. Would SFSU be a bad place to go? What colleges should I look for?

>t. Poor bayfag

>>17420936
Well, I think I've got your point.

How well does a full sized comforter fit the typical dorm bed?

>>17412173
I want to lose my virginity to a legal whore but am too conflicted to go through with it. I want to fuck someone way better looking than I could ever hope to get normally.

What is the most cost efficient and effective way to end my life?
>inb4 don't do it
I don't wanna hear that shit, you're not helping.

>>17419753
yeah I did, she basically said
>naaah no way, you didnt do that
>shes just covering her back
>best not to contact them
(i wanted to apologize in case I did do it, but this was after the bf said dont contact us again.)

>>17421055

Drowning costs $0, but it fucking sucks

>>17421135
thank you, but that's really not what I have in mind.
I've heard there's over the counter shit you can OD on but I'm not looking for something with a low or even questionable success rate.
I need a sure thing.

>>17421034
Waste of time. First time is overrated, if you are capable of actually having sex without paying for it, do that.

>>17421150
Why does the cost even matter of you're dead? Get a credit card, withdraw everything as a cash advance, go fucking nuts with drugs and hookers, and od on heroin or something.

Guys i need to write down a resume but i have no idea how to do it. I checked few samples but they're aimed at professional people with past work experience. I'm just fresh out of collage with no past-experience, i just don't know what to write.

Thing is, i will be applying at a friend's place so it doesn't have to be really serious but even then i'm clueless. Should i just include my contact info, few personal stuff and education history and be done with it ?

>fresh out of collage
>no past-experience
>collage

You already lost. Just go work at a supermarket or something.

>>17416468
>>17416517
We live in a large rural area that does not require garbage service and we do fine burning paper and making compost and bagging plastic wrappers to throw away at a gas station, but they always bought these stupid cups of soda that got collected over ten years. I figure my virginity is circumstantial and I'll seek help once I move to a denser area

>>17421158
I'm not capable though. I'm a fat late twenties nerd.

>>17421382
Oh OK, well fuck a hooker then.

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Will being roommates with a friend ruin the friendship?

>>17421400
You will still be friends but not in the same way as before. Living with someone exposes you to all sides of a person.

I want to be a parent but I don't want to have any sex, as a male I should just find a woman with a kid right? She'll think I'm a serious creep.

>>17421400
I think it strengthens a friendship.

What are some fun things to do outdoors alone?

>>17421388
I think I'm going to...

>>17421474
Find and look at bugs

>>17420945
Make sure to sit in the front of the class and strike conversation up with people around you. Find others who you share departments with and get to know them, those are the people you'll share classes with for the next three years. Don't be afraid to talk to someone you don't recognize.

>>17421158
What if I was terrified of having sex with someone who is not a virgin because I am a virgin? I am excited about having sex for the first time but a nonvirgin, having already done it and is now bored, is only looking to snuff out this dear sweet virgin
I can't get over the fear someone wants to kill me after I have sex for the first time at least, "have sex once before you die"

>>17421540
It's actually a lot better with someone who's not a virgin. They're generally a lot more experienced, open to doing different things, and less selfish (ie. they'll be able to get you off).

>>17421458
You are a serious creep.

>>17421474
Photography, hiking, kayak, fishing. There are heaps

>>17421564
I know it sounds silly but when I'm faced with the real prospect of sex this fear is very real, I feel bad thinking of medication though

>>17421619
It's because you have built it up too much in your head. Just do it, it's fun and enjoyable, even if you are shit while learning, noone cares. Don't expect it to be some massive life changing thing though.

>>17421570
So tolerate sex like a good wife, it's only fair

>>17421630
Something in life would change, a portion of it devoted to this activity. A part of me hates the thought of it. I am fucked up.

>>17421619
That's precisely why you should do it with a non virgin, they'll be able to take control and relieve your tension (and get you off).

Male or female btw?

>>17421647
Male, I guess it is control issues and being the center of attention

If I'm going to lose my virginity when I move to a new state, how should I meet my first partner? At the pool I'm thinking, if there's a nice one

How can I stop being angry and immature so often?

i think i might have depression but i'm not a danger to myself

is it worth seeing a doctor or would diagnosis make it worse?

>>17421716
Recognize your fear. Like getting angry at being cut off in traffic without ever feeling the fear of being hit, fear was still the root of it

>>17421733
Fear?

>I'll never make a new friend
>I am boring
>Good at nothing
>The next time I will have or hear a meaningful conversation could be over a year
>I'll explode at my brother for being an obnoxious ass and having his girlfriend over as much as possible
>These problems are so smaller compared to others
>The downfall of western civilization (half joking)
>Don't know what to do with anxiety
>I'll stay creepy and these things I do will to haunt me
>Therapy will never do anything for me (as it feels now)
>No one will take me seriously
>Family care less and less about me as years go one
>Old acquaintances think lowly of me
>I'm wasting money
>I've wasted my life

My head feels like it is going to explode and I'm sweating. What do I do now?

>>17421773
Get mad at your own expectations, you don't owe anyone anything

>>17421632
What? You said you were male. But yes, sex is how babies are made anon.

>>17421645
Not like how you think it would. Sex isn't a big deal.

>>17421894
That is why killing me would be more interesting right?

When the hell should one go and buy condoms?
Never really felt needed before, though I've been interested in getting in the scene.
Have been focusing on myself lately and noticing I have gotten some attention.
This feels like such a non problem, though I've never given thought on this before.

>>17421911
i got some off amazon, i too feel to anxious to buy them in a store

>>17421884
New babies. There are babies that need attention already.

>>17417861
8 years??? Jesus. How old are you?

Are cargo shorts actually fedora-level clothing or have I been misled? I was just given some as a gift.

>>17417861
Wear a ring maybe

Should I lose my virginity to an escort and tell people it was some girl on tinder?
It is not going to happen anyways

>>17416752
Mate college is full of old people, half my year was mature students, some of them were older than my dad and he is 60 this year.

>>17421906
No. Sex isn't worth necking yourself over. In fact, there's not much that is.

>>17421923
Yes there are. However most women are going to think you are a weirdo if you want to be with them, but not have sex. They will likely think you are only sexually attracted to children.

>>17421938
How old are you? I'm not that guy but I've also been in a relationship for 8 years now.

Is it strange that only now at the age of 27 have I considered losing my virginity and becoming a parent? I guess the two were never not connected.

>>17422001
So wanting to only be a parent is not normal to you?

>>17422001
Not myself but I have the feeling someone who is bored of sex will kill me if I end up alone with them

I feel like I want to carry some useful stuff with me. So far all I carry is my phone, wallet and keys. I know some people carry knives for things. A pipboy comes to mind, but is unreal. Anyone got any ideas of what I could carry that's useful?

>>17422003
Not really. Some people want things at different times.

>>17422007
No. I am a parent. Sex is a pretty normal part of life. What is your issue with it?

>>17422013
I'm not sure I understand

>>17422016
What? Phone, wallet, keys. Not much else you need. If you have to ask what would be good to carry, you don't need it.

>>17422085
The thought of sex gives me negative feelings, whatever that issue is.
What isn't there to understand about the fear of death, you think people aren't capable of killing you? It is very real.

>>17422085
What is it like pretending you aren't an animal in front of your child, but then mate behind closed doors? How do you feel you liar?

>>17422099
I honestly can't tell if you are serious now. People dont randomly kill people becayse they are bored of sex. You have a far higher chance of being run over by a bus.

>>17422114
You can't know that for sure, I see it as a giant risk trusting somebody with my body

>>17422113
Haha well that was a nice conversation, a semi decent trolling attempt I suppose.

>>17422118
Anyone can stab you while walking down the street.

>>17422119
These are my honest feelings on the subject, why is this commonly ignored reasoning?

>>17422121
But these people want it an exact way, why else set it up so far

>>17422016
I carry a lighter, a pen, sometimes pepper spray if I'm in a dangerous area. I also always carry rubber gloves. You never know when you might have to touch something weird, slimy, or possibly contaminated. I use rubber gloves a lot. They are great for pumping gas/putting air in your tire and inspecting random trash. I like having clean hands.

>>17422123
Noone actually thinks that. How do you think basically everything that isn't a single cell organism reproduces?

>>17422129
I don't even know what you are saying anymore. I think it's safest you just don't have sex.

>>17422138
>and inspecting random trash
What. This site never stops amazing me.

>>17422139
I was mad that I was lies to in the first place and not every species fucking deceives their offspring
Next time you join a conversation you start at the beginning, I am a virgin that was the whole point.

How do you cope with being the needy one in the relationship? I miss my SO every single day, even if we just saw each other. I've never felt that way toward another person, most people I just want space from. Now I feel like I struggle to give him space. He's a very busy person. However, he's never really complained about the fact that I text/call nearly every day. And yes I have other hobbies and interests, I just always end up thinking of him. Does anyone else feel this way?

>>17421474
Pokemon Go

>>17422123
Sex doesn't have to be animalistic. It can be meaningful expression of love.

>>17422144
Dude you never know, if its something shiny it could be worthwhile.

>>17422139
So I'll tell people I am not interested in sex once I move

>>17422147
There is no deception? I've been in the conversation the whole time, I accidentally had "op is a cum guzzler" from another thread.

>>17422157
>meaningful
I just can't get over the fact that meaning is entirely made up, a figment of the imagination itself. You want to equate it to cause and effect but it is more like reasoning, an abstract concept you push. I tip my Fedora I guess, maybe it is past betrayals I guess. Meaning has meaning until it doesn't. A girl can consent to your face but may turn around and say you raped her, at least

>>17422163
I thought you said haven't, rather than don't. I haven't had sex and I won't.

I want to have a child but I have to trust some woman to carry it without running off on me

>>17422187
Ah OK. Well that's cool, if you don't want to do it, it will be silly to do it.

>>17422193

Contrary to popular opinion, most people are actually fairly trustworthy. Not sure if it's a good idea bringing a child up if you have such deep seated trust issues.

>>17422157
You're feeling some good limerence there that's nice, I felt that before I moved away from my gf and got isolated

I've been getting the strong urge to clack my left ankle all day. Trying to leave it alone makes it feel uncomfortable and I ultimately start clacking it again. What the fuck is this? It happens to me evey once in awhile. I feel like I'm losing it

Does making friends when traveling depend on luck?

>>17422466
It will be directly proportionate to the number of people you speak to.

>>17421942
They're fedora level clothing. It takes a very specific aesthetic and build to pull it off. Just don't risk it anon.

>>17422163
Actions speak louder than words and you hide what you do, why is it so bad you need to hide?