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How do I stop being a quitter?
Every time I make a decision to do something I always convince myself mentally to back out of it, examples being:
>Attemp no fap
I'm not going to get laid anyway
>Think about buying a new car
Getting a loan, bartering, and paying off the financing sounds like too much work, car would only make me happy for so long
>Need to trim the beard/get a haircut
I don't have a reason to look good for anyone
>Should probably get some excercise
Again probably not getting laid
Not only do I not get anything accomplished, I just feel worse knowing I'm a lazy and/or cowardly piece of shit for giving up or just not even attempting anything
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>>17412064
That actually sounds like depression to me. Very few people are so self defeating without being depressed or having a form of mental illness (unless you are just a pro procrastinator, in which case, carry on.)
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>How do I stop being a quitter?
Work at it.
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>>17412073
I am rather proficient at procrastinating but depression sounds about right
Funny thing though, I've already talked myself out of getting therapy
>>17412083
How though? I've literally no idea how to change an entire mindset, that sounds impossible for someone like me
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>>17412087
Well, find a way to talk yourself back into it. Take it from someone who got treatment - it is the one thing worth doing as a depressed person. If treatment works, the change is astounding.
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>>17412064
stop being a pussy
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There's a revolutionary drug out there for this condition. It's called follow through.
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So damn sick of all these posts like this. Come to terms with the fact that to fail once now is to fail everytime. Pick something manageable that's not too long-term and do it. If you can get through that, you build from there. If you can't, KYS.
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