Does anyone else struggle to orgasm during sex? It's not

>>17409746
>implying i have sex

>>17409746

Deathgrip, you fap too much

>>17409746
You are not alone. Google "ejaculatory incompetence" (It sounds awful, doesn't it?) It just means you can get it up but can't get off.

There can be psychological causes, as you guess. If you think you're afraid of cheating the girl, give her an orgasm or two by hand or mouth before you even think of climbing aboard. That way you are assured you won't cheat her - and taking that pressure off may let you allow yourself to come.

It can also be physical, especially if you are accustomed to a degree of pressure or tightness in your masturbation. Put simply, you may not get the friction/pressure you need from a vagina. Try doggy style - the front wall of the vagina is firmer than the back, and may give you what you need. And you might hit her elusive G spot in the process.

Antidepressants will do that.

>>17409776

I usually make her cum with clitoral stimulation or oral before I fuck her. My dick has the bend upwards and I think that is the reason ivr never had a problem hitting a girls gspot. Only the first couple girls did I ever not make squirt, didn't really know what I was doing at the time. Doggy doesn't really work for my gf, she says it goes too deep. Feelsbadman, that's when it kinda feels the best.

But fuck I feel so much pressure to just fuck her brains out.

>>17409791

Well fuck...I'm screwed then.

Oh man, sorry OP..
As a woman I'd prefer a guy who comes in a few minutes.

I feel for you, and your woman.

>>17409798
Meh.
I haven't wanted sex since February, depression will do that.
Continuing to live is my focus at the moment.

I thought I fapped too much because when my girl gives me a blowjob I don't cum for like 20 minutes, but when we have sex I last like 5 minutes before I bust a nut.

>>17409819
Some days I really wish I could bust in 5 minutes.

If you watch porn, it completely rewires the brain. It's called PEID or porn induced erectile dysfunction. Lots of info on youtube about it and when men stop watching porn for a few weeks they find they start waking up with a woody and get erect quickly and don't go soft half way through.

To any haters who don't like the truth about porn– go fuck yourself.