I've been in a relationship with someone online since the beginning of the year, and at first everything seemed fine. But later on they became really clingy, they want to fall asleep at the same time every night, even though they don't like to sleep so we end up staying up until the sun rises almost every day. I also learned that they are a total NEET, I knew they weren't in school already, but they completely don't want to do anything with their life as far as I know.
I've talked to them about how I feel, but I feel like they just don't get it.
I just feel bad because I think if I just end it they'll be traumatized or something.
What should I do?
>>17409364
You are in control of your own computer. You can decide when you're available and when not, and the other person will have to accept that or move on.
That doesn't mean that you have to be nasty, just that you DO have the right to say "I have to sign off now to sleep/do homework/go to work/whatever" and then to sign off.
>>17409402
Thanks for the advice man