How do I let people know I'm not interested? Without saying anything to them. People who look at others sexually automatically dehumanize them, it's annoying. If you're honest you will admit you've done this before, I just want it to stop.
>>17407283
Go back to tumblr
>People who look at others sexually automatically dehumanize them, it's annoying
Yes, because when people look at others sexually they want to fuck animals or inanimate objects. You're being bothered by natural human behavior. You are an idiot.
If you're not interested don't acknowledge them.
>>17407300
I'm not an idiot.
>>17407283
>i sent nudes to a lot of different guys in highschool, banged them and got mad they didnt stay because i have no other interesting life qualities/goals so now i assume all men are pigs waaaaa waaaaaaa waaaaaaa
>>17407283
Have you tried, I don't know, ignoring them? If someone is looking at you 'sexually', just literally look away and move on with your life. People can generally take hints.
>>17407307
Why does this happen so much in Highschool? I can name atleast 4 different Highschool Sluts who got tossed around like a ragdoll, who are now gay/bi, wear those stupid Gem Rocks, dyed their hair and talk about how annoying men are
>>17407303
oh, really? no way!
>>17407309
I don't mind staring but touching is different. Eyes are meant to stare, hands should be kept to yourself. Just because you befriend someone doesn't mean you have more rights than a stranger to feel them up.
>>17407317
Don't patronize me.
>>17407300
Kind of what this anon said. Don't forget that humans are just animals too. The drive to procreate is natural.
>>17407328
>>17407309
To be clear, someone pretended to be friendly just so they could grope me. Of course I'd ignore if they stared.
>>17407328
why not? you don't like being patronized?!
>>17407328
>>17407336
Learn to stand up for yourself and tell someone to fuck off if they invade your personal space. Some people are creeps and will take advantage of weak girls.
>>17407335
>Don't forget that humans are just animals too
this.
>>17407283
>How do I let people know I'm not interested? Without saying anything to them.
>You don't. People are not telepaths. Use your words.
>People who look at others sexually automatically dehumanize them
This is ridiculous and paranoid. Your inability to cope with the presence of other people in the world is your own problem, and not anyone else's. I don't know what happened to put you into such a fragile state, and I am genuinely sorry to hear that you are hurting, but the onus is on you to take an active role in your own healing process No one else can do it for you.
>If you're honest you will admit you've done this before
Of course I have. So, I would wager, have you. Neither of us dehumanized anyobe by doing so.
>I just want it to stop.
That is too bad. This is what happens when other people exist. I suggest you find a way to deal with it.
>>17407328
>I don't mind staring
Then why did you open with arguments about staring and never even mention anything else?
>but touching is different. Eyes are meant to stare, hands should be kept to yourself. Just because you befriend someone doesn't mean you have more rights than a stranger to feel them up.
See, this here is a totally reasonable position. I agree with you on this point completely. Why didn't you open with this, instead of a lunatic position that you don't even believe?
> Bait: the thread
Tell them you're not interested or ignore them.
Holy fuck wow what a crazy hot fresh idea.
>>17407283
Become a feminist and make it clear to everyone else that you are one.