I need help and advice on some things of the sexual nature.
Firstly, I have never been a very physical person so everything in a relationship past hugging can be a bit weird for me. One issue we have is that kissing, specifically making out, turns me off. All the way off, but for my bf, it's a huge turn on to make out. He said that if he knew about my disdain for kissing it may have been a deal breaker, but now that he loves me we are trying to work on compromising but I know it really bumms him out that we can't really have makeout sessions. Advice on what to do in this situation?
Second, he has insomnia and is frequently kept from sleeping completely because of being horny after I fall asleep. Sometimes we try to fool around before bed so he can hopefully sleep after doing stuff but it doesn't always happen due to a long distance relationship so we only see each other on weekends. Any one have experience with such things? Any advice is appreciated.
>>17404325
First off, i'm assuming you have some sort of past trauma that makes you not enjoy physicality, for that dr anon perscribes a therapist.
It it's something that you know you'll never get over, it is a deal breaker for most people. Make sure you make that perfectly clear next time you go into a relationship with someone
lastly, if you're like 17 its quite possible you're still in the kissing is icky phase of your life