Hi bros, can you help me to solve this somewhat deep philosophical question.
What kind of thinking do you need, to be non-combatant and non-competitif in your thinking and actions; and still be strong against agressors who are 'violent in words' or just violent.
Some background info, I want to achieve this. because supposly being non-combatant and non-competitif in your thinking and actions makes other people be more helpfull and it gives you more security etc.
But I still don't want to be weak against assholes.
I mean non-competitive , not non-competitif
Don't go into conversations or arguments seeking to win; listen well, take your time in formulating replies that seek a peaceful resolution to the dialogue I'm a firm, yet calm tone.
You might also want to Google how to deal with angry customers, as I feel this may fit in with the type of bullshit customer service representatives have to deal with.
Wit also helps, but it's a bit hard to learn and pull off properly without escalating things unnecessarily.
Also Google-able (how to become wittier).
Good luck, anon.
>>17404021
this looks very usefull, thank you
I think i found another solution, what about this.
I realised that some people are non-combatant or non-competitive (atleast far) in nature, some aren't. I think the best thing is to hang mostly with the people with the first group, so I can live a life easily with being non-competitive and non-combatant.
if i come acrose a person who's violent or something in that nature, i'll deal with him in a manner so i can get rid of him. even if it's violent and aggressive too.
Good? Would LOVE to hear your opinion, or better solutions. thanks already !