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Hey guys. Im in a pickle here and could use some insight.
I just got out of a relationship that I can easily go back into with financial security, however, I enjoy my freedom and independence. The only problem here is I have a neurological condition which makes it hard to survive on my own or hold a job.
On one hand I can go back into a relationship (which I really would rather be single), where I can have security while i take care of my problems and get on my feet. Or I can risk being on the streets by chancing my situation on my own.. I know this all sounds really shitty but please try to step into my shoes. Thanks.
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you've provided no where near enough info. sounds like you should've started saving before breaking up?
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nevermind what i should have done.. My options are to stay alone, which i prefer, but risk not being able to make it because of my medical situation.
Or, go back into a relationship i dont really want to be in for medical and financial security.
One route is tending to my comfort and happiness. the other is tending to my survival.
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I would 100% go with finding a job, whether you get back together with your ex or have another relationship.
1) Uh, what makes you think your ex will take you back?
2) What if you get back into your relationship for medical and financial security and they get hit by a bus and die the next day? Or worse, become a quadriplegic and can no longer work to support you?
Either way the only true option is to work on supporting yourself. Having someone support you is just putting off the inevitable.
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