One of my gf's coworkers invited her to an anime con this

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2016-07-28 20:35:38 Post No. 17403612
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Anonymous 2016-07-28 20:35:38 Post No. 17403612 [Report]

One of my gf's coworkers invited her to an anime con this weekend. Gf invited me, really wants me to go, but I'm on the fence:

Pros:
>It'll be a sort of getaway, I haven't traveled for leisure for a year or so now.
>spending time with the gf doing something she really likes

Cons:
>Have very tight budget. Still have to pay one months rent and a deposit in a week (~1500), con is $130, and I have $1200
>Not a weeb: Coworker and gf are very much weeaboos and openly so. I watch quite a lot myself, but am not at all open about it. I don't know how I feel about being at a con.
>no cosplay, only one without. I feel really awkward being the odd one out, especially with being invited only as a bf
>not a really big con, only small indie panels and stuff

I know theres more cons, but maybe someone can change my perspective?

Anonymous 2016-07-28 20:37:08 Post No.17403620
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Anonymous 2016-07-28 20:37:08 Post No.17403620 [Report]

>>17403612
>more cons than pros
Sorry

Anonymous 2016-07-28 20:38:57 Post No.17403626
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Anonymous 2016-07-28 20:38:57 Post No.17403626 [Report]

If I were in your position and I loved my gf I would go, it would make her really happy
I made a mistake of being in a similar situation and not going, I should have went because I was her boyfriend and I should have done it to make her happy

Anonymous 2016-07-28 20:39:17 Post No.17403627
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Anonymous 2016-07-28 20:39:17 Post No.17403627 [Report]

>>17403612
Just go, even if you don't end up enjoying the con it'll be good to get out for a while. You don't have to exclusively do con things, explore whatever city you're in, go to a nice restaurant.

Anonymous 2016-07-28 20:41:13 Post No.17403632
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Anonymous 2016-07-28 20:41:13 Post No.17403632 [Report]

>>17403612
Asides from the money issue, I don't see this going wrong. It's a new experience, and you get to experience it with your girlfriend.

Anonymous 2016-07-28 20:45:59 Post No.17403650
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Anonymous 2016-07-28 20:45:59 Post No.17403650 [Report]

>>17403626
Thanks, I tried to convince myself earlier like "In a year, will I feel better having gone or not"
>>17403627
It looks like exclusively con stuff lol, it's out in the middle of nowhere. But it definitely will be a change of scenery.
>>17403632
Gf has offered to cover the cost for me, and I'd pay her back when In clear, so that's okay,ish. I really dislike the feeling of being indebted, even though I know shes doing it for "us"

Anonymous 2016-07-28 20:47:13 Post No.17403659
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Anonymous 2016-07-28 20:47:13 Post No.17403659 [Report]

>>17403612
the only real problem here is the budget thing to be honest

you should go since she wants you to

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