So on Sunday I got into an argument with my roommate, and I can't

>>17401708
they were going to ask you to join in, you blew it OP you blew it

>>17401719
Unlikely - I've joked about it before and they both got weird

...but they didn't say no, hmmm

Your roommate probably gets off to the idea of other people hearing him fucking or something. You're not really in the wrong for being uncomfortable with that.

>>17401728
I've pondered that too, was it just some kind of weird power play?

Basically they were like "don't worry it will be 20 minutes just watch TV", and I'm totally not okay with that.

>>17401736
Tell him that if he's gonna involve you in his power fantasies, he might as well involve you all the way, if you know what I mean :^)

>>17401748
bam there it is. drop a hot ultimatum. threesome or we aren't friends anymore

Tbh sounds like you did something reasonable

I'd tell my friends to fuck right off if they wanted me to sit and watch tv while they shagged, that's just bad manners. Like, real bad manners. It was probably someone's fantasy to cuck you and you ruined that fantasy by not acting like a cuck...

Play it cool, you did nothing wrong famalama

>>17401807
thanks man.

It's weird, they've fucked while we're at my apartment, which is fine, I can just leave, and roommate and I split rent 50/50 so it's his place too.

But they drove me all the way out to this girl's place, which is way on the other side of town. I couldn't walk home if I wanted to.

I think it would have been something else if there was a larger group of people. Like if there were 4 more people there, it would have been weird, but at least acceptable if they disappeared for 20 minutes.

But it was just us 3.

>>17401708
You were both in the right and in the wrong. You were completely within your right to tell them not to fuck while you were there, but your roommate was also completely in the right by telling you to leave and taking you home. Your roommate was in the wrong when he decided to fuck his gf while you were there. He should've told you when you got in his car, and then taken you home. What he did was incredibly rude and extremely disrespectful.

Some people would not give a shit about that, but it's not a normal request and I bet your friend was pissed off because you telling him no really awkwardly rubbed in his face that what he wanted can be seen as very weird. It's possible that he just thought you had the kind of casual, solid friendship where you wouldn't really care. It is also quite possible that it was some form of powerplay, that he got off to plowing her while you were patiently waiting for him to be done, or that his girl likes being exhibitionist and showing off her moans.

Either way you did absolutely nothing wrong. It's not something he can expect from you and again, I think part of the reason he got angry was because there's undeniable truth in you pointing out that this was abnormal.

>>17401927
This is true, I'm glad he gave me a ride home. I mean I would have just left if I had driven myself, but why would we take two cars?

>>17401940
Yeah I give a shit. Good news is, it's pretty unlikely that anything similar will ever happen again, and it's not like I'm going to tell anyone in our group of friends.

I guess my prime concern was that acting out the way I did would have been rude, but that's obviously what put them in a spot where they thought we were all close enough to do something like that.

>>17401973
The thing is that people's idea of closeness is different. What is "just close friendship" to one person is uncomfortable to someone else. Compare it to how in some couples walking in to go through something with your partner quickly while they're shitting is the ultimate testament of how comfortable you are around each other. For others it's not a matter of being comfortable or uncomfortable but with preserving mystery.

So even if for your friend it was a matter of being "good enough friends", you shouldn't feel like you are turning him down by not engaging him in this. It is simply not for you to handle it like this.

>>17401989
Yeah man, I'm just glad everyone involved is willing to put it behind us.

I actually saw the girlfriend yesterday, and just acted normal like nothing happened. Nothing really needs to be said.

Although I do think it's kind of funny entertaining the idea that they hung out with me because they got off with their weird kinky cuck shit.

Maybe I was the glue that was holding their relationship together

>>17401708
That's really strange. He was wrong to ask you to do that, frankly. Unless he had some unlikely plan for a threesome, it's just plain stupid on his part. Show him this post.