Plz halp /adv/, this shit is driving me crazy....I'll try to keep it short
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>met girl at work a year ago, she had bf, I had gf, so we were always friends
>fast forward to last month, she breaks up wit her bf, I'm also recently single
>find new job
>during "2 weeks notice" period, me and girl become close
>take lots of breaks together, talk a shit ton
>finally have last day of work. 2 days later she texts me
>we begin texting daily for like 3-4 days
>one night she asks me what we're doing
>i didn't know what that means and asked her to clarify
>she goes on to tell me that she likes me as more than just a friend etc
>i tell her it's mutual etc
>catsoutofthebag.jpg
>we set up time to hang out during the following week
>she cancels same day, less than an hour before...acting very distant
>reaches out to me following day basically indicating that she met with ex to tie up lose ends
>kind of irritated but whatever
>we continue to text during the week, she starts convos about 50% of the time.
> earlier this week we talk about actually hanging out, she says she's free this weekend
>set up hangout on saturday
>fast forward to today, we're texting as usual
>the topic of saturday comes up
>she asks what we're doing
>i jokingly ask if she's gonna bail on me again
>she insists she's not
>i tell her i'll think of a plan
>she sends me a text, word for word: "Make a plan that doesn't seem like a date tho. K cool"
What the fuck.
After that she said "i'm sorry that was rude, we can do whatever"
At that point I just suggested that we grabbed a drink somewhere and that was it. Is this salvageable or do I cancel this and just not talk to her anymore? It reeks of friend-zone and I don't feel like wasting my time.
>>17396938
Well lots of problems I see on /adv/ is not being blunt. Sometimes you have to be blunt. Something like... 'Dear lady, would you kindly clarify our relationships for me because I'm a little bit nervous you might have friend-zoned me?'
She's back with her ex, OP. Move on.
>>17396953
She just moved out from his place....I'm 99.99% sure this isn't the case but it's always a possibility
>>17396948
This is something I might do if I meet with her this weekend...maybe not that exact wording lol
>>17396980
'Tis all depends on your own manneurisms. Honesty feels great anyway.
>>17396992
I guess we'll see
Any other opinions on this? Should I bother going in saturday or should I call it off.
>>17398640
One last shameless bump and ill let it die