Hey /adv/, I don't know what your regular threads are like

>>17395474
you don't have to finish. Don't fucking take her calls or let her in the door. What's fucking wrong with you?

>Will not stop texting me around the clock, if I don't reply instantly she'll send several more texts
>If I don't respond to any of those texts she gets super defensive, telling me how much she cares and what not, but then
>"I just can't afford to lose you right now, I don't know if I could take it"
>Will also spend days just sitting at her parents house and sending me nudes, kind of got old and awkward fast
>I tried to give her as much attention as possible because of this, thought maybe it would help, but it's draining. At one point I had my phone out around the clock.
>If I try to talk to her about this she gets more defensive, then starts a fight, and then begins saying things like I yelled at her and I'm abusive
>The other night we got into a fight over the phone and she pulled this exact BS, roommate was watching the whole time, tells me I just seemed confused and didn't raise my voice once
>A good friend and confidant of mine insists she's a bit toxic

Tl;dr
>Girlfriend has some odd behavior, not sure how to deal with it, if I should deal with it, or when I should deal with it
>Not sure if I want to break up or not or what

When things are good, it's great, but she's constantly starting shit and then putting the blame on me. At the same time she recently said some things that really like, base her own well being on me being around?
The primary reason why I haven't jumped ship yet is because I have a bunch of her stuff here and I'm not sure what a long distance breakup would do or if these problems may subside when the distance closes.
Send help

End it, dumbass. Stop thinking with the little brain between your legs and start using the big one in your head.

Put all her stuff in a box and leave it next to your door. When she comes back, invite her over and give her the box and calmly tell her to fuck off out of your life.

Trust me, you don't want to be with this kind of girl. She's the kind of woman that'll get you locked up in jail with false rape accusations.

>>17395487
>>17395498
I mean my concerns are more like
>Is it really me?
>What do I do with all her stuff?
And what sort of exit strategy I can employ
>>17395505
Has the right idea but I'm still full of concerns I guess

>>17395521
it's her. do as the other anon suggested (I have done it myself). Neatly pack her shit into boxes, leave them outside your door. Let her know to pick it up but give a time limit or you will take it to goodwill and do not be there when she does. Oh, change your goddamn phone number so she cannot send you a test which you will read. One crazy I got entangled with was so bad I took a job in another state and moved and didn't tell anyone.

Bitch sounds crazy

>and then begins saying things like I yelled at her and I'm abusive

that is very concerning, it's only a matter of time before she starts levying these claims against the police if you piss her off. Wouldn't be surprised if she threatens to do something like that when you break up with her.

>She finally agrees we're in a monogamous relationship

sounds like she was probably banging a bunch of other dudes as well

I think that moving her stuff in prematurely was probably a big warning sign that clearly states that this girl has some issues. Don't think it was you at all.

I would agree with the other anons, pack up her shit and invite her to come get it. Have your roommate there or another person with you so she can't claim abuse or other weird shit. If she shows up and refuses to leave, then tell her you will call the police. Save everything: texts, phones messages etc. in case you have legal trouble with this crazy bitch.

>>17395564
Also if you ever gave her a key, change the locks if possible. Even if she gives you the key back she may have made a copy.