>introduce bf to 4chan >show him /gif/ and /wsg/ >past

>>17394778
>ask if youre in the mood
>Not just raping you on the spot

Not normal, he prefers porn over you. You won't dump him since you think you can change him.

>>17394778
I failto see how introducing him to 4chan is relevant to any of this.

>>17394778
Does he try to hide that he does it or does he care if you know that he does?

>>17394793
Would be kinda hot...

>>17394795
To be fair, I have changed him in many ways:
>he paid back some of his college loan debt from his unfinished degree
>taught him basic life skills like cleaning and cooking which he did not know how to do
>got him in a stable financial place so he could at least bring up his credit score and got his first credit card
I admit in many ways he's juvenile but he can be taught and he does listen when the issues are laid on the table. However, since he was not raised with expectations I do have to stick with him and lay down boundaries or else he loses focus.

>>17394796
It's only relevant in that I only notice the majority of his porn watching stems from /gif/, so I have no idea if the porn thing started before then or if I just gave him a really good source.

Would be interesting if someone admitted their porn usage went up as they browsed 4chan though.

>>17394817
If you introduced your boyfriend to porn then he isn't a man so you're saving yourself trouble.

>>17394817
>it would be kinda hot
maybe thats his fetish anon. Tell him you are open to it.

>>17394817
/gif/ is pretty nice if you are lazy with finding porn. My porn usage certainly went up due to gif as I am too lazy to go find my own.

>>17394817
Ofcourse it would he hot
>>17394823
It isnt. The majority of women have this fetish, virgin

>>17394816
He doesn't/hasn't brought up that he watches porn to me. Only reason I know he browses porn is from his browsing history, he hasn't personally confessed to it.

I could bring it up that I know he watches porn but without me blatantly admitting I go through his computer he could deny it. And then if I admit I went through the history he could make it about a trust issue, which is a half-truth but the reality is I've protected my feelings by doing that before. I feel better knowing what I know.

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>>17394829
>jokingly suggest that a guy might have a rape fetish
>that makes me a virgin

>>17394830
To be fair the fact he won't tell you about it in the first place is already is a reason to question why he is doing it first place especially if the he is doing it instead of actually having sex with you so unless it's brought out into the open to understand why he does it this will carry on.

>>17394778
I won't comment on pornhub, but you yourself introduced him to /gif/, did you not?

>>17394843
Its possible to have a fetish for anything.

Godammit OP, just ask him if he wants to watch porn with you, if you're in such a wet need for a shag.

>>17394850
then why did you ask me:
>Rape
>Fetish
Pick one.

>>17394778
Why are you working so hard to build this guy up?
Most girls I met expect a guy to have some of his shit together, unless he's tall and handsome.

>>17394850
I used to have a coworker that had a cheese fetish.

>>17394823
>maybe thats his fetish

Here's a rundown of his searches just from last night at 2am while I was home on the couch:
>mean brother blackmailed stepsister - xvideos
>finest asses - /gif/
>fertility thread - /gif/
>webcam fun: free licking porn video - xhamster
>sex with friends - /gif/
>girls dry humping girls - /gif/
>big tit thread - /gif/
Then earlier at 11pm before I got home
>Lidiya Krasnorujeva - Boobpedia
>compilation of lidiya - pornhub
>took a politics survery on pornhub (kek)
>big tit thread - /gif/

>>17394826
Interesting. I've definitely found some raunchy stuff myself at random times in the day that got me to schlick but it hasn't made me this significantly more horny like what I'm looking at here.

>>17394839
Yeah. I'm seeing my counselor soon so I'll bring this issue up and see how I should go about putting it into words.

>>17394863
I was partially joking but from the looks of it he just likes tits.

also
>Fertility thread
I regret going to see what that was

>>17394868
I just checked and it just seems to be girls with fucking massive tits and butts. Its pretty gross but to each their own i guess.

>>17394857
Because he's a great personality who unfortunately doesn't have his shit together and no family to help him.
It's one part my low self-esteem, one part I want to make this work and see him succeed, and one part in order to sever the relationship there's the logistics concerning: the lease, how he'll possibly move back five states away w/o a license and nobody to help him, and then the fallout I'll get for obvs being the "bitchy" gf that I frankly don't have the emotional stamina to deal with.

And no he's not tall and about average. Take that as you will.

>>17394882
just look at the thread, the butts look like cottage cheese and the tits are saggier than my grandma's

>>17394897
thats an exception, I didn't see it because I didn't go very deep into the thread.

>>17394868
>Have you got big tits?
Not as big as the sweater cows in that thread, no.
I'm honestly not surprised the majority of guys like big tits, it's really no different than women liking bigger or thicker dicks. It's a preference, not a relationship-breaker and I understand that so I'm not insecure.

I just feel left out.

>>17394872
Here's some more searches from the night before:
>some russian pornlife site
>aileen ghettman - fucking boob science...
>big tit thread again
>a bunch of searches for Larkin Love (I hate this bitch, shit taste..)
>livejasmin
>Dors Feline
>Amanda Love

So yeah, definitely massive tit fetish.

>>17394874
Honestly, it feels like you worry a little too much about him and not enough about yourself between the 'medically sick', or needed meds to work constantly, concerns for your friends and what they think of you and supposed low-self esteem.
Sometime the only people we can save is ourselves, and sometimes we need to save ourselves before saving others.
It's not the end of the world if it doesn't work out but it will just feel that way for a long while.

>>17394909
So you're a bit upset because he's not shagging you? Also, I think I speak for the majority of men when I say we like any tits.

>>17394920
>So you're a bit upset because he's not shagging you?

Wouldn't guys feel a bit sexually frustrated as well if their girl was looking up porn behind their backs for big black cock but never struck up a proper bj late at night? Sure you might let it slide but if it were all the time...

>>17394909
Guys like to check out girls with nice 'features' the same way girls can't look away from a pretty face on guy or a dude with a swimmers body and a six pack. Even guys that have a full head of hair past their 30's is considered optional to some women.
It's just hormone, genetics and animal urges telling us to look out for the best options.

>>17394927
Yes, I would. The big black cock part would be the most upsetting. You see, I hate niggers. Anyway, have you talked to him about this?

>>17394909
You could do something to make your tits look bigger while clothed at least, or diet down (average tits look big on a smaller frame) if you're fat, if you want to indulge him - but that's not the point, is it?

>>17394934
See >>17394830

>>17394932
If you are putting porn before your girlfriend all the time it's not a matter of looking at "nice features" anymore it's actually a sign of a more serious problem.

>>17394935
>to make your tits look bigger while clothed at least

I've got bombshell bras from victoria's secret, I'm positive them looking big isn't an issue.

>diet down
I'll start that when he starts going to the gym to get some muscles. I wouldn't mind getting thinner for him if that's what he wanted to see, but it's gonna be mutual or he can gtfo.

>>17394936
Your boyfriend sounds like a bit of a cuck. Why jack off when you can be physically intimate with a real person whom you know. Doesn't make any sense to me

>>17394927
So, why not take the lead or make the first move? When you are alone with him start kissing him and stripping him down and see if he into it as well, he may not get hard instantly but don't take offense to it, if he's smart he'll finger or eat you out to make sure at least you get some satisfaction.
Unless you the type that can't make a move unless the guy makes one, then get with the 21st century.

>>17394945
Yeah this is the train of thought I was going for since physically intimacy and love making far beats jerking the shaft unless there is a genuine reason as to why he can't or doesn't want to.

>>17394955
When's the last time you and him had sex? I think you'll have to initiate it if you want sexy time

>>17394953
>So, why not take the lead or make the first move?

Because between him talking shit about me to his friends, watching porn behind my back, and then the own issues I'm going through (that I evidently get little compassion for) I feel turned off and put off.
I mean I'm even driving him to an interview tomorrow at noon. I put up for a lot in the relationship but feel at the same time unwanted and not the go-to. I want him to prove he wants me by initiating something with me.

It's tiring to always look like the desperado chasing after her man, when really he should see why he needs me at this point.

>>17394942
>I wouldn't mind getting thinner for him if that's what he wanted to see, but it's gonna be mutual or he can gtfo.
Then's he'll gtfo.
It seems like you expect him to be your equal but he clearly isn't. If people were true equals they'd almost never leave the bedroom and fuck like rabbits all the time.

>>17394959
I ain't OP btw lol but going with a guy would be against my moral compass for I am straight male haha.

>>17394960
He doesn't appreciate you. He'll miss you when your gone, I can be sure about that.
>>17394963
kek

>>17394960
The fact he isn't putting 50% in the relationship is already a red flag since anyone who knows anything knows that a relationship always should be 50/50 after the initial chase and catch phase at the beginning.

wait a minute if he goes on 4chan isn't there a slight chance he'll see this thread

>>17394989
Yes, I have seen it. I'm on my way to give OP the dicking of her life.

>>17394977
>50%
>not giving 100% to a relationship
ISHYGDDT

>>17394996
I didn't mean in the case he only puts 50% effort in that sense more that both people should be putting there all in and since there is 2 people that is basically 50/50

>>17394990
wat.
you have a job interview right now, get back to work!
get baaaack to iiiiiiiiiiit!!!!1

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>>17395017
I can do you in the car

>>17395029

Hey look, they're communicating again. Fucking finally?

>>17394990
>>17395017
>>17395029
This is extremely disappointing if this is actually them

>>17395036
I highly doubt it is though.

>>17394989
OP here again I just had to drive to my therapist's office.

>will your bf see this thread?
Tbh no. I don't think he's much more adventurous than wandering from those specific boards I showed him. When I first showed him around 4chan he didn't even understand how to switch boards. Can't imagine him coming onto /adv/ and staying here. He don't give a shit.

>>17394990
Lmao. Nice try friend.
Bf is currently serving at the asian bistro across from our house getting bossed around by a hispanic named sous-sous.

>>17395029
Bahaha ha anon stop pls

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>>17395047
>tfw I'm actually sous-sous

>>17395054
>browsing 4chan at work
>talking to bitches
>while their cuckfriend slaves for your chinese bosses
WERR DONE

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>>17395054
>I will never be sous-sous

Just got home.

>tl;dr
Counselor didn't tell me anything you guys didn't suggest.
Basically just to remind bf that I'm 'available' after my cooldown time from work and that I also crave intimacy too.

>>17395382
Welcome back and yeah I figured that would have been the case since.

>>17395384
Btw same person as above
But yeah if he won't try to talk about it then after you ask then there is a much bigger issue with the relationship and I would consider bailing out.