I have a co-worker who is continually lazy, rude, and generally unable to realize how his actions affect others; I dislike being around him, but I pity him, because of his situation. I want to try and help him, but every time I do, he just becomes angry and throws a tantrum towards me; how should I proceed? I'm scheduled to work with him tomorrow. I don't expect many answers, because I feel like he's a lost cause.
Tell him that nobody's going to be nice and understanding to him if he keeps being a dick.
Maybe he will change, maybe he will not.
Attitude is not about where you are in life, its about how you deal with life.
>>17394093
You tried. Now leave him alone, work around him, and quietly make sure you are not blamed for his screw-ups.