Good date ideas for a poorfag? I went on my first one with her Saturday, movie at the mall and other mall things, and that fucked me money wise in all honesty. Just wondering if any of you have anything creative or ideal places to not spend much money.
Also when should I take her out on a second date? Should I just know or should I ask her? Is there an average time or an ultimatum? I'm sorry I'm really new at this.
>>17393557
>movie at the mall and other mall things
Tip: Never take a girl out to the movies or the mall. I know you're a poorfag, but you probably don't wanna do that
>ideas
Restaurant, a festival/flea market, the park, a coffee shop, a bike ride, arcade, bowling, roller blading/ice skating. You essentially want to do something fun - a place/activity in which you two can just talk and build intimacy.
>when
If you went on Saturday, call her today or tomorrow. Talk to her for a bit then set a definite date later this week. You usually want to limit your contact to once a week to set up dates
If she likes you, she will usually contact you, but that usually does not start until around the 3rd date or so
>>17393557
I'd like to add a museum to a list of potential places. Personally, I found art museums worked best for me. For me it was good because theres a lot to talk about and you begin to gauge what kind of person she is and etc.
>>17393685
I'll also add this:
Try to make your dates a surprise. When contacting her, you want to make a definite date i.e a day and time, but you don't want to tell her every activity you have planned. It ruins the excitement for her. By not telling her, she'll spend the coming days thinking about your date as opposed to knowing what will happen
Simply tell her when you're going to pick her up. If she asks what you're going to do, just be really vague, or say it'll be a surprise