I'm addicted to having online flings when I'm in a

She'd probably be horrified if she found out and broken.

But if she's not putting out after over a year, and you're not cheating on her physically, I think she'd be able to get over it.

>>17391228
My ex did this to me and it ruined our relationship.

What hurt me most is when I found out, I read through the texts and messages and he was flirting with them like he flirted with me. Our inside jokes, names he called me, cute things he said to me, were all used on random sluts he met online.

That was the solitary thing that hurt the most. Because the cute things he did and said that I thought were intimate, were not.

>>17391241
My current GF also did this. Not quite to the extent of saying our inside jokes and shit. But it still has affected our relationship years later.

It'll probably not last, but I'd like to think I got over it.

>>17391240
>She'd probably be horrified if she found out and broken.
>But if she's not putting out after over a year, and you're not cheating on her physically, I think she'd be able to get over it.

She knows I have done it before.

She said not to do it anymore, but said she didn't see it as cheating.

putting it bluntly, you're cheating on her because she's not ready. if you're not prepared to wait then you don't deserve her. if you loved her you'd wait a lifetime. tell her what you've been doing so she can find someone worth her time.

>>17391241
>>>17391228 (OP) (You)
>My ex did this to me and it ruined our relationship.
>What hurt me most is when I found out, I read through the texts and messages and he was flirting with them like he flirted with me. Our inside jokes, names he called me, cute things he said to me, were all used on random sluts he met online.
>That was the solitary thing that hurt the most. Because the cute things he did and said that I thought were intimate, were not.

Inside shit is kept inside. I just sext with these girls.

I also delete everything after I've done it. So she can't see anything.

>>17391286
Doesn't make it okay

>>17391347
>>>17391286 (You)
>Doesn't make it okay
But how bad is it?

Is it something I need to beg forgiveness for or is it semi justifiable.

Why don't you just fucking fap to porn like a normal person?

I understand you OP.

I'm a female and I quite enjoy all the little side things for when my husband isn't there.

I also masturbate to the material and find it more stimulating than porn.

It could be pretty hurtful, but my husband doesn't care particularly. I don't really use pet names, so maybe that is part of it, but the intimacy can never be the same as it is in person.