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So there's this girl I work with who is pretty much for sure into me, and I like her as well, and I'm thinking about asking her out. Problem is, she's pretty shy, and I am even more so, so we haven't really talked much or gotten to know each other very well. I am worried that if we bullshit for too long she'll get asked out by someone else as she's like a solid 9 imo.
So, what I'm asking is: Should I go ahead and ask her out and get to know her outside of work, at the risk of her saying no, or should I try to get to know her a little first at the risk of her being asked out by someone else, or worse, being friendzoned?
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Friendzone is a bullshit myth. You are either attractive or not. 'We're just friends' is a nice way of rejecting someone.
Just remember that the 'what if' of social scenarios is extremely limited. Who gives a shit if she says no?
Literally nothing will happen to you if she says no, with the exception of your pride being bruised. Do you want to be a little bitch and risk not getting laid because youre worried about getting rejected? Who cares what she thinks of you? What matters is that one route is the route where there's a distinct possibility of something you long for happening and the other route there definitely isn't.
Also if she rejects you just move on, don't be friends with someone when you just desire her, be friends with girls you're not attracted to.
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