Looking for advice on how to handle someone I've started

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Am I the only one that's ever dealt with a situation like this? Pic related.

>>17387869
You're golden. Sounds like you're on the same page. Just be honest with her if the topic does come up. It's the right thing to do. In the meantime, just have fun.

I got burnt in a similar suituation earlier this year, however, my arrangement was more of a sleeping over almost every night type of situation. I saw her almost every day. Didn't end well, when she finally brought up exclusivity and I told her I couldn't promise her anything. It ended then and there, because she had fallen madly in love with me, and now she fucking hates me.

You should listen to your guts. It's what I neglected to do. I knew she had fallen in love, but I ignored the signs -because- she never initiated the conversation.

You may proceed, but be careful. She might get hurt, she might not.

>>17387869
I travel a lot for work but will not settle for one woman in one city. Don't tie yourself down

>>17388922
You make a good point. Although I know she was fresh out of a relationship where to dude kinda dicked her over. So I don't think she's looking for anything serious. Could be wrong tho.

>>17388976

Who says I'm tying myself down? I normally see her 2-3 nights while I'm in town and the other nights are either spent relaxing alone or dating other women. It's the same in every city I visit lol

>>17387869
I generally don't put my dick into someone without talking about expectations and what I'm looking for. The exception is if I'm open to anything -- either that it's just for fun or something that will lead to a long term relationship. One goal is to cut down on the drama, but I also don't want to hurt someone.

Getting laid is nice and all, but keeping my life uncomplicated and avoiding ill will is nicer.

>>17389105

I see what you're saying. Not to sound like a douche or anything but if it came to that, I could easily get out of ever seeing her again. I stay at different hotels, and I don't travel to any set schedule, so she has no idea when I'll actually be visiting. I usually tell her a week or two beforehand so she knows when I'll be around.

So basically all I have to do is block her number and she'll never know where I am. Not really that kind of guy but I have an easy out if it gets there.

>>17389110
Well ok, if you think acting like a douchebag is the way you want to go, it's your life. I think there's a lot of value in trying to treat people well even if in the short term there is a cost to you.

Considering that you only see her when you visit her town (and I assume there's little to no contact between those times) she probably isn't expecting much.

>>17389273

I don't think you read my entire post. I stated that we talk regularly when I'm not in town. But never about feelings or "us"...just casual conversation