How do i control my thoughts? Over the last couple months i told - /adv/ - Advice

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2016-07-24 06:43:59 Post No. 17386988
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Anonymous 2016-07-24 06:43:59 Post No. 17386988 [Report]

How do i control my thoughts?
Over the last couple months i told this girl that I've been friends with for like 8 years that i like her. And she told me she likes me too. But were not going to have a relationship atm because of a bunch of other complicated stuff. But when that stuff goes by, we can try.

My issue is though, i think negatively about it constantly. I think what if she changes her mind, what if she doesnt even want to be friends, what if she moves away, what if shes lying about something.

And there are so many other things i should be focused on that are more important.

And it just builds up and up and up until i just unload it in some over the top over dramatic cringeworthy clingy gross way.

How do i not agonize over this 24/7?

Anonymous 2016-07-24 07:04:28 Post No.17387039
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Did i make this too long?

Anonymous 2016-07-24 08:27:45 Post No.17387158
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Anonymous 2016-07-24 08:27:45 Post No.17387158 [Report]

Anyone?

Anonymous 2016-07-24 08:30:31 Post No.17387163
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Anonymous 2016-07-24 08:30:31 Post No.17387163 [Report]

get your dick wet elsewhere; shes not interested

tada, i just fixed all your problems

Anonymous 2016-07-24 08:33:16 Post No.17387166
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Anonymous 2016-07-24 08:33:16 Post No.17387166 [Report]

>>17387158
Sounds like you are in the freindzone
Try to advance an further or try something
you might make things awkward

Anonymous 2016-07-24 08:38:05 Post No.17387169
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Anonymous 2016-07-24 08:38:05 Post No.17387169 [Report]

>>17387163
Been there done that.
>>17387166
I dont mind being just friends honestly. If i could just go back to acting normal that would be great. This person is really important to me and i just want to be a part of their life. I'm not asking how to move things forward or anything.
I'm just asking how to deal with this stupid anxiety because its going to start making me act crazy and then I'll burn bridges and then we won't even be friends any more.

Anonymous 2016-07-24 08:38:43 Post No.17387171
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Anonymous 2016-07-24 08:38:43 Post No.17387171 [Report]

>>17386988
gotta ask something more specific or get your thoughts more straighter.

Like, what exactly makes your situation complex?

Anonymous 2016-07-24 08:42:09 Post No.17387173
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Anonymous 2016-07-24 08:48:52 Post No.17387184
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Anonymous 2016-07-24 08:48:52 Post No.17387184 [Report]

>>17387171
I just got out of a long term abusive relationship, and if i start a new one this soon it won't be a healthy one. Her and my ex are kind of friends. She's not ready to focus on one either right now. I'm in a tough financial situation. She lives just over an hour away from me.

I just want to stop thinking about it constantly though.

Anonymous 2016-07-24 18:28:43 Post No.17388123
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Anonymous 2016-07-24 18:28:43 Post No.17388123 [Report]

>>17387184
Like ex husband or ex boyfriend? What's her story?