So am I just delusional or right here? warning might be a long

>>17386225
like she constantly asks me for advice shes actually really depended on me, constantly texting me and asking me to go with her to places.
At this point im starting to fall in love with her, noone has ever been so sweet to me.
but I of course have huge blue balls because theres no sex involved.

anyway the more I start to like her, the more she starts to drift away from me. Like she tells me we cant become much more then friends. and then she starts hanging out more with other people, and "forgetting" to chill with me. and she hangs out with well known sluts and drugaddicts. while she is not that kind of person. so im starting to think to myself, maybe i did have a chance to fuck her but i just didnt play my cards right?
or is my understanding of simple human interaction so terrible that i just dont understand.


Like she tells me we cant become much more than friends. and then she starts hanging out more with other people, and "forgetting" to chill with me. and she hangs out with well known sluts and drugaddicts. while she is not that kind of person. and I dont really get along with her new friends either, and being prone to outside influences as she is we start seeing each other less and less till eventually no more.

so im starting to think to myself, maybe i did have a chance to fuck/wife her but i just didnt play my cards right?
or is my understanding of simple human interaction so terrible that i just dont understand.

She was so fucking hot too. but she didnt completely realize it. she was to insecure to see how good she was. Also she was sort of mentally unstable.

even now, years later it still bothers me, and I just wish I could get inside her head to understand this.

How old are you?

anyone?

It's because you're male and you're blue-balled.

Men will always be physically willing to have sex if the female is attractive and there were absolutely no consequences - it'd be like a more exciting way to masturbate. HOWEVER, it's just that the well-adjusted men actually have self-control and realize that it's fucked up to use people as masturbation tools when whacking off isn't a whole lot worse, all things considered.

There is only one cure for your disease - get more female friends. Once that happens you'll learn what it's like to actually REALLY be platonic friends with members of the opposite sex. Once that happens, you will no longer see every interaction with a girl as "Does she like me?" and "Will this get me laid?"

>>17386345
but all I want is to have sex or a relationship.
I see no real need to have a friendship and constant desires that cannot be fulfilled, its like a mild form of torture.

Why should I have to settle for friendship when others get so much more out of it?

If we get along great, and are attracted why not have sex really?


I appriciate your input, didnt think of it that way.

>>17386375
I might be a little bit wrong therere actually, at that time I kinda needed a friend. but I did want more

>>17386375
I don't think women are as sex driven as men (generalizing here, of course), and that some are weird and just cuddle and only want to be friends. I would just leave those ones alone and let natural selection do its thing. Meeting new wymyn isn't a bad thing to do, if you're just friends with normal ones, eventually you'll probably be in a relationship if you ask one out (or maybe they'll ask you).

>>17386345
>your disease
>you will no longer see every interaction as...
cunt or cuck

shut the fuck up

not op

skimming through what you wrote a little bit (because it was kind of meandering), you can't make a girl want to have sex with you. if you want to have sex, you should go looking for girls who clearly want to fuck you. they won't make it super known until they actually decide to make a move, but just go out and flag/socialize well with people and it will happen

when it comes to cuddling with a person and being their therapist while you want to have sex with them and they don't want to have sex with you...what the fuck?

>>17386453
thats kinda where I crashed. At first I thought these were all great fucking signs. but apparantly they werent. so next time around I will be second guessing.

>>17386477
those usually are good signs, but in my experience there has been more clarity. There's really nothing wrong with coming out and saying, "I like you." In my experience, they made it known before we did any real talking or cuddling or anything of that nature. I can see where all that physical contact would be misleading though.