My boyfriend wants me to go to a family party which is outdoors and it's 90°
I said yes a week ago
Due to my face breaking out and realizing it is outdoors I no longer want to go nor have the confidence to go.
I'll sit there sweating. My hair will curl and my face will melt off.
if I tell him I don't want to go he'll act like I'm rude and i don't care about him?
Should I tell him no or should I be a good girlfriend and just go?
u made a decision, u have to deal with it. schould have thought about it before xD btw. who cares?!?!
Go. You agreed before-hand. I'm sure they'll have some way to keep cool.
Jesus christ you sound like a shit woman.. Oh no poor mee so defenseless you amature. Sun hat matching dress with plenty of spf and bug repellent. You sound like a self centered twat.
>>17385055
You shouldn't have agreed to go to his little cousin's 5th birthday.
Everybody there is going to be sweaty and hot, and unless he comes from a family of supermodels you're going to see all manner of superficial imperfections.
Get a big hat, wear sunscreen, and enjoy sharing a day with someone you love!
Tell him your concerns, ask for support.
Go and arrange for water supply and locations of shade. If you feel uncomfortable, tell him and if he's not some stuck up trophy wife hunter he will support and help you.
I have scars/ constant acne on my shoulders and a fucking beard and I am a woman. I can't do much about my shoulders apart from cleaning and giving them light and air (covering up all the time makes it worse) and I use hair removal cream for my face at it's worst but I can't every day. I still wear nice stuff and go out when I can, even when i get social anxiety, but my BF knows the signs and helps when I need it
Don't be a wuss. If you looked that ugly when your hot, he wouldn't be inviting pizza face/ you.
Go and enjoy yourself and stop being selfish, you'll look like a knob if you DON'T go - love spotty chewbacca
dont be embarrassed about your looks. if he and they are worth it, they wont judge or care. the fact you would still make the effort depsite insecurities speaks volumes and he should love you all the more for it. also curly hair is the cutest.
I went. It's boring but my bf is happy