Any asocial/antisocial people here with parents that seem dissapointed

Why are we so similar? 100 years ago this would be rare but now there are people just like me.

And my parents are okay they just don't accept or understand me.

Tell them you could just get knocked up/ someone knocked up, deal with drugs and be in a gang, the social life in those activities are very busy!

Seriously though, your happiness matters, not there's. Try and show them your interests, if they see you are activity enjoying life doing y our hobbies/ following interests, they may not understand them but see you are at least happy.

I have done a lot academically for my parent's to be proud of, not so much career and socially wise. I like video games, online funny crap, making things and anime/ delving into cosplay. My mum has spent most of my life trying to get into going to parties, drinking wine (I rarely drink), addict myself more in the way I look with clothes and make up rather than my interests.

She is also an amazing cook and gardener which are not in my interests but have at least tried to learn but my mum is so spectacular at it she always expects me to be brilliant at any effort in i do so I loose interest.

I used to feel bad when my mum has more interest in my sister (who lives abroad and has a more volatile relationship with) in what she has to say and do all of my life as she was the pretty fashionable one and I was the overweight geek.

I like my hobbies, I enjoy food but continue to try and improve my fitness and diet as life goes on, I like what I do and I am learning more and more to love myself rather than focus on what I am not.

Be and enjoy who you are, not be unhappy at what you are not (or made to feel you are wrong in life as long as you are not some baby rapist terrorist)

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Let's all love Lain.