Hey guys. Been at my new job now for over a year, prior to this I did a course in order to get into this job. The course obviously came with a class of people, where I've met quite a few new friends, including one specific girl.
Anyway, a year later it feels as if she has grown a lot on me. We sometimes work in the same office with other people, the way we treat and talk to each other feels like there is something there but I don't know because I am fucking clueless with women and dating.
I don't know how to approach her about this.. I'm thinking maybe even joking about going out somewhere and seeing what she says but.. what if it made her feel awkward? The fact we work at the same place makes me hesitate trying something with her.
Any stories or advice on this? Thanks. Tits in return.
Please don't date coworkers, it doesn't end well. And hitting on women behind a "joke" veil is really fucking annoying to us because we want to shoot you down sometimes but can't because "Lel it's not really flirting" and we don't want to look like conceited bitches. So we laugh along, play it off, and you have no more information than you started with
>>17384117
I work in a hospital, there are plenty of people inside who are married or are just simply together. That's why I'm half on asking her and half not just because I'm hesitating.
I just need to know how I can approach her. Since you are a woman, can you tell me?
>>17384060
Let it be casual. Start talking to her just before lunchtime and ask her if she wants to go on during lunch. Or propose a drink to a group of coworkers and invite her too (enjoy the drink with others if she refuse). Tell your coworkers that you would like to see a movie and arrange a meeting at the cinema with a bunch of them. If she's interested she will come, and you can evaluate if she's really interested.