ok guys
I like this girl, but she's weird as fuck.
>never uses her phone, maybe writes only 1-2 times a day
>never says anything
>unless it's during school where teacher asks a question she's the first to answer
>is really fucking intelligent, had the 2nd best grades in our year
>apparently has absolutely no self-confidence as far as I can tell
Everytime I wanted to ask her out, someone got in my way. Like I wanted to ask her out once during a get-together of our class before finals, and we were alone for 5 minutes, as I wanted to ask her I hear her friend yell her name. She had 2 friends who were orbiting her like two furious fucking moons, I never had the chance to ask her out.
Fast forward after finals, I just decided that I need to go from 0 to 100 because apparently, this woman is autstic and won't understand unless I make it completely clear that I like her.
I've approached this girl on WA multiple times and just asked straight up if she wants to go out with me, but everytime she was already out with friends (which I've confirmed, since she was out with our classmates mostly), I've asked her again, and so far it looks like a positive, I'm still waiting on a definitive answer though.
I am asking you guys however, was it the right choice to just go full force? Honestly this woman is probably the most unusual in her behaviour, all of my prior experience just doesn't apply here.
tl;dr
how do I into a relationship with a weirdo
>>17383340
Good on you for displaying confidence but it sounds like she's just not interested in you. You've made the move on more than one occasion and she's chosen her friends over you.
Time to move on.
>>17383381
I'm definetly moving on if she gives me another negative
I even messaged her "listen just fucking say no if you don't want to" once, she literally apologized for not answering and explained herself
so either
A: she's a manipulating psychopath playing with my feelings
B: she's actually busy
you see these occasions were some special ones, for example she went to an Europapark with them, she'd have to be mad in love to call off one of her last occasions with people she knew for 3 years just for me
she even said yes once, but then our teacher called us on the for a get-together, on the very day we were supposed to have a fucking date, it's like somethings telling me "you can fuck right off anon"
then she went back to a vacation with her father, and came back yesterday
thanks for replying though, if it doesn't work this time I'm surely doing the next try like this again, women are just too much trouble
>>17383420
>listen just fucking say no if you don't want to
Kek
>>17383462
well I figured that some women are afraid of saying no and just stall until you give up and I didn't want to deal with this shit, I was thinking that reassuring to her that it's fine to say no sometimes would've given her confidence to just say that she's not interested and finally end the charade (unless she's playing with me, which I sincerely doubt)
but in her case it only hinted at her interest if you ask me, since she apologized and explained herself
one thing though:
I did word it like that, but you know WA emojis can make a message like that appear much less harsh
Are you a grill?
>>17383552
it would be very painful