PLEASE help.
Two weeks ago me and my gf had a terrible, terrible week. She was PMS'ing horribly and I was coming off anxiety medication and having a terrible rebound effect. We were both irritable as fuck and argued all week, then eventually made peace, and had a great time last week, perfect, up until sunday. Sunday we went to a show, she did something that ticked me off, we fought again, kind of big time, but made up. Ever since then something's been feeling kind of off though.
I know I shouldn't expect everything to feel normal after so many repeat fights, but I'm still feeling the effects of the rebound (they say it can last up to a month) and I feel like I'm dying, I'm super anxious every day, RIGHT NOW, over nothing. She told me the day before yesterday that she's with me, body and soul, and she has no doubts. Yesterday we had a good time together, lots of laughs, got along like usual, but then I had a really vivid dream where she said she didn't feel like hanging around me anymore after all that happened and woke up extremely anxious. My brain is destroying me here.
How can I stop feeling like she's slipping away and leave all this behind me?
>>17381803
Have a cup of tea and cuddle together in bed.
Hugging and cuddling releases oxytocin which lowers your blood pressure and cortisol levels which the hormone responsible for stress.
>>17381803
>She told me the day before yesterday that she's with me, body and soul, and she has no doubts.
Christ you don't really think that means anything do you?
>>17381808
How do you mean?
>>17381803
Stop abusing benzos. That'll help in trying not to read her mind, because when you start trying to read her mind to predict her actions, nearly all of your own actions turn into suggestions that lead her right out the front door.
Just stop.
>>17381816
I'm actually not taking anything anymore. And the problem is I cut it off abruptly, which I know is a HORRIBLE thing to do, but it was affecting my libido too much. I couldn't stand it.
I figured I'd just be able to take the rebound.