I want to more social. Get a girlfriend to have great sex with.

>>17378082
Sounds about half the people on this site.

>>17378082
You need to gain more self confidence. I know it's hard, but it takes effort. You need to get to the point where you don't care about what you say and what people think about you. Go to the library and seek out self-help books that are specific to your problems.

>>17378146
I'm kind of a self-help fanatic as well. Always enjoy reading a book or two, anything specific you can recommend?

Just look at what you have right now.
For example, i have a house, a great family, a gaming pc i can entertain myself with, a bed where to sleep comfortably, a car.
Do i really give a fuck about what other people think of me? Nah, do i care if girls find me attractive or not? Nope. Just set yourself some goals, accomplish things, and you'll have some self confidence and a plan for your life.
Live on friend, only you can make your life better, not those people outside.

>>17378157
There's a book called "Living Fearlessly" by Paramahansa Yogananda that really helped me. It's only 75 pages but it gave me a new mantra to live by.

>>17378166
Thanks I only hope they have it at my local library, I'll ask around. If not there always online.
>>17378159
Yeah this all very true. The people on the outside don't pay my bills or anything. I agree with what you're saying, now it feels weird too be complaining, I could be worse off eh?

>>17378205
Yeah, once you've stop caring about what others think of you and gained some confidence, ironically is when you will get more friends.

That's not the good part however, always remember to better yourself, and accomplish what you want in the long run, and avoid distractions, like bad relationships, or wasting years of your life doing nothing, set yourself a life goal, and do everything to get to it. Nothing else matters.