Does life get any better?
>Early 20s
>married
>wife finishing college this upcoming next year
>English major
>I dropped out my second semester
>doing a trade and hopefully finish school
>I don't feel like getting a degree will help me one bit.
I feel so hopeless. I am thinking my life will be wasted working retail or any minimum paying job.
Also what's the best state to live in? New jersey fucking sucks
>>17375318
Getting married in early 20s is a thing? The fuck I'm freaking the fuck out.
>>17375323
It's a huge thing. Guilt-ridden post-pubescents make a desperate lunge for moral gratitude only to have it backfire in 7 years max.
>>17375318
Buddy, you are married. Get it? The most important person in your life sleeps next to you every night. How fucking obvious can this be? You are not the point anymore. She is. It does not matter one fucking ounce right now if that's not mutual. If you are going to own up to any percentage of your responsibility as a husband, you will set aside every last fucking shred of your own ego and replace it with hers wholesale. You are in business. Training is over. The real shit hits now.
>>17375330
I'm happy for that but I feel like I won't be able to provide. I feel beta as fuck
>>17375318
What trade were you trained in? The world will always need plumbers. And electricians, construction workers, cops, truck drivers, garbage men, barbers, postmen, etc. Honest and honorable professions all of them, and most make more money than an English teacher.
The older I get, the happier I get.
I miss my 20-year-old body that didn't have aches and pains, but not my 20-year-old mind. I still have problems, of course, but I don't stress and fret over them like I used to.
Your life will get better. You'll see.
>>17375913
I'm starting cisco networking or ekg electrician