>be best friends with "abby" >4 years of friendship

>>17375129
Get friends you sperg
God, you're so pathetic. After you'll get your shit together(none of that shy and quiet bullshit) you can destroy her reputation. You've been friends with her for 4 years, you must know something she wouldn't want anyone to know.

>>17375129
Mentioning that you were worried she was talking shit about you behind your back was a huge mistake. However, by and large it sounds like your friend was kind of a hot mess.

As for whatever industry you're in,trying to find a branch that you can get into that your friend may not have touched. It's not impossible. She can't be everywhere. Don't give up.

>>17375137
Yeah, because trying to scrap with somebody already trying to destroy your reputation is gonna make both of you look great

>>17375137
i don't care about that, i care that i can't fucking get employed because of how this bitch managed to black list me before i even got to work anywhere

i could tell her boyfriend that she has been trying to cheat on him and has lied to him about a ton of things, but i don't know if he'll believe me since he's a super loyal cuck to her and even let her get away with some shady stuff she did.

i also know she gossips like crazy but who the hell would believe me? i'm the one who got pinched out of the friendship, of course they'll think i'm out for blood

>>17375140
>Oh no I cant find a job because of the slander
>Best not make myself look bad
OP do whatever you want, and by that I mean fuck that bitch over

>>17375144
Well you have few options:
-She's not omnipotent do what >>17375138
says
-If it's a small town, move
-Become a big deal and retire her also seduce her boyfriend

>>17375138
i was just trying to be honest with her and give her my reasons on why i thought her talking shit was troubling...

i had no idea she would react like that obviously.

i must've applied to like every single company that's in my province... unless i move to the other side of the country (which i can't afford to do) i don't think i can get a job.

she's part of a tight asian network so everyone kind of knows everyone too. i don't think it's fucking fair that i have to move out of my country because of her.

>>17375154
>which i can't afford to do
Well, you can't afford to be jobless, can't you
It's not fair but like hurricanes and cancer it happens

>>17375154
Also you're a terrible judge of character, so be more careful when making friends

>>17375147
That's gonna come right back around to bite this guy in the ass. Abby is clearly vindictive and will retaliate, and will talk more shit about him and try to ruin him further and then he will have to respond in kind and it will be a vicious cycle that will continue until one or both of them can no longer work in the industry of their choosing. I really don't think that OP should play the game, but I guess that's really up to him.

>>17375159
Nah, not if he plays it right bu I don't trust OP not to fuck this up. So fair point.

>>17375147
i'm all ears, but i can't even think about anything i can do that'll do much.
i mean i have her email, phone and address but that's about it. i'll probably get caught and arrested for harassment before it even dents anything about her.

>>17375152
i can't afford to move. i also have my own boyfriend here who can't move because of his job... so no, i wouldn't want to seduce her bf anyway, who is a total cuck for her in the first place...

>>17375147
Can't she sue for slander, and by her I mean OP.

are you in China?

If so move to Taiwan

>>17375163
Well, your priority is to get a job. You have her email and phone, you can set her up as an escort. But focus on what's important first.
>>17375165
Also this

>>17375155
i guess that's true but i don't want to leave my boyfriend and family behind because of this bitch

>>17375158
yeah well i figured that by now... but you wouldn't have guessed it either if you met her. i mean, she has so many people who she is already friends with who beg her to come out and hang out and stuff. so it's not like i'm the only one who thought that.

>>17375159
this, and it's not like i know what i could even do.

My soul has recently changed hands except this time I actually love my master. I am likely to endure eternal suffering for some reason. It doesn't matter what the reason is. My question is: Is there a chance my master will help me find someone to love so I can be a better servant?

>>17375165
i've never sued anyone for anything, but it sounds expensive and she has a rich family anyways.

>>17375166
no, i'm not even fluent in my mother tongue. i haven't been back to my home country since i was born.

>>17375170
i don't like it but i guess i have no other choice. i hate the idea that she is getting away with this though and ruining everything in my life all because i stood up to her bullshit

>>17375184
anon, people are dicks
there's a spectrum of how much of a dick a person is and this person is pretty high on the dick spectrum
There is nothing you can do about people being dicks, especially not mentally unstable women. They are the absolute worst (has personal experience). However, what you can do is adapt. Do not sink to her level, do not try to make her life miserable, because you are just bringing yourself upwards on the dick spectrum. Adapt, evolve, fight and beat this

Start small. Volunteer. Build up a reputation as trustworthy. Make small talk. Make friends. Show your friends what kind of person you are. Use friends as references at part-time jobs. Rinse and repeat.
Fight it
Become strong

Sounds like you just need to find some branch she hasn't reached or some person who doesn't care enough what she says. Perhaps someone who knows your sister?

Apply to jobs in other cities. There's no way she has contacted the HR department of every place that hires for what you do. Most HR departments wouldn't even read what she sent much less even remember your name for the future.