I don't normally come here, so forgive me if I don't know the culture here.
last month I meet a really nice girl on tinder she's a 7/10 to me and I've been told by /soc/ I'm a 6-7/10 anyways initially started by telling each other jokes and then told about other things until I asked her out for a dinner date. We meet up in Cambridge (she's going to uni there for medical) she showed me around, had Italian then walked around some more showing me all that Cambridge has to offer, all the while holding hands,until I had to leave. hugged, she kissed me on the cheek, I then forced a kiss on her but she rolled with it. The next day I left back home to the states for vacation and we were chatting though messenger but it's seeming like she lost interest... I really felt like something cold come from this but I'm honestly losing hope.
I'm pretty thirsty considering I haven't had a gf since 4 years ago, but I think i handled everything pretty well. I don't want to send many messages so I don't end up looking like a creep but I really want too talk with her, I land back in the UK on Sunday and I'm going to ask her for a second date and hope it all goes well.
What do y'all think I should do or think? I'm honestly just getting out of depression by the idea of being with someone and don't want to go back to that...
Oh and I had better luck with her over SMS than FB messenger
>>17374266
ur over thinking this, just hit her up when u get bak senpai
Can I see the messages?
>>17374287
over facebook or sms?
facebook is where i fell it when down hill
>>17374342
both
>>17374348
Honestly there's a lot from which point would you like?
>>17374399
just some examples of what you think are bad and some that you think are good, for reference
>>17374409
So 1 & 2 i feel are where things were going well, then 3 & 4 is where it went south since she hasn't replied... 4 is where it ends
http://imgur.com/a/j0XIp
Im not doctor but I think you may just be over-reacting.
If you want my advice: Just lay off for until Sunday. If you're going to ask her out, CALL HER. Don't do it by text. If she doesn't answer,
wait maybe a day or two and if she doesn't respond again, leave a message saying something like "hey dunno if you got my calls blah blah blah wondering if you wanna go out again etc." If she doesn't respond again, just drop her.
From my experience I've noticed that girls are just awful at texting and stuff like that.
I don't think you've lost her... yet. Good luck.
>>17374461
u rely 2 much on FB msg senpai
just ask her out whenur back fan
this
no need to keep pushing her to talk if you're gonna ask her out again
From the looks of it there's nothing to worry bout, I'm definitely not an expert.