Hello just looking for a little insight on this thing going on with this girl. I am unsure if there is a genuine interest or she is just leading me on for attention.
So basically we have gone out quite a bit and by gone out I mean go to the movies, chill at her house my house, go out to eat sit in my car and talk till like 4 in the morning on multiple occasions so we do quite a bit together just me and her.
The only thing that makes me think she may not be interested is due to the fact that she very rarely initiates anything. I do all that and yes I hear that men are suppose to do the initiating when it comes to conversations dates etc. but I believe that if someone does have an interest then they would initiate things as well due to the fact that they wanna spend their time with you, not the other way around.
Another thing that erks me is that we have talked about becoming an item but she seems to want to know me more before going to that. We have been hanging out for a little more than 2 months now so maybe that is a legitimate reason. That or she just wants to let me down easy but not feel bad about it by leaving some glimpse of hope for me. Idk but I'm just unsure of it all.
So what do you guys think?
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I hope to god you've kissed her by now, if not; what the fuck is wrong with you?