What can I do to improve my confidence and body issues? It's ruining the sex life of my relationship. When my boyfriend and I are apart, I'm horny and cannot wait to do all these things with him. As soon as we're together though that all changes and I find myself saying no a lot. I don't feel comfortable with myself or body, it's like my libido suddenly crashes.
It's not fair on him. What can I do?
Do you go to the gym or do anything to try and increase the confidence you have in your own body?
I'm writing as someone going through an almost identical thing and I find that working out makes me feel much better about myself. The fact my boyfriend also finds me attractive and is extremely forward in telling me so, also helps me to get lost in the moment and forget about insecurities.
I would also advise spending more time by yourself exploring your own body and focusing on exactly what it is you don't like and what you think is awesome. Buy yourself some nice but flattering underwear and just spend time looking at yourself. Explore yourself sexually more as well, try masturbating more and touching yourself in the places you don't like while you're doing it. Sounds stupid but it's about changing your perception of yourself to something more positive.
Also, you might not think you have a perfect body but I'm pretty sure your boyfriend will think you're sexy as fuck.
Do you actually have a reason to be insecure?