How do i stay composed and refrain from being abusive to an irrational

>>17371841
break off the relationship and find someone that better suits your likings

>>17371842
But i like her and love her, i am stressed myself and i feel like i don't know how to deal with her problems additional to mine.

>>17371841
Where can you buy that lama?!? It is amazing and i want to own it!

>>17371849
She's causing you problems. Sure, you love her, but how old are you? Are you going to let her problems weigh you down are you going to stay independent and be your own individual?

>>17371868
I am 22, i want to dedicate my life to us.

>>17371861
Ask that guy.

>>17371861

>>17371875
You're too young or premature. You need to experiment some more, as in, over time.

>>17371881
Wrong one
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>>17371882
You are right, how would i go about this if i am married?

>>17371888
yooscrood. make the best of a bad situation. I seriously don't know.

>>17371841
Talk it over. Communication is key. Ask if you can talk to them and voice your concerns but let them talk. No interruptions. Make it clear but short what you want to talk about and how and why you feel.

The benchmark of any good relationship is understanding with which communication is the key.