I honestly don't know what to do anymore. I feel like my

>>17370169

That's rough, OP. Listen, though: you don't really know what's going on with him, and you *won't* know, unless you ask.

It's very easy to succumb to insecurities and think, "he must be cheating, because x, and y, and z, and why bother even looking closer; it's so clearly over." But there are two very good reasons to look closer: 1). You love him. 2). Insecurity lies. It lies like a motherfucker.

I cannot tell you how many times my wife, in the firsr year of our marriage, would ask me, timidly, "do you still love me?" This was not an attempt at manipulation, this was not not playful banter, this was her insecurity running amok inside her head. The more she valued our relationship, the more sure she was it would end in disaster, because of, you guessed it, that motherfucker, Insecurity.

So, in person, tell him that you are feeling insecure, and need to hear the truth from him. Then tell him, without complaining, that you've felt neglected lately and want to know what's going on in his life. If there's some major commitment on his time, he needs to tell you about it.

Start there, anon. Communication is really the most important thing when it comes to conquering insecurity.

>>17370213
Thank you but I will try. That's all I can do. Maybe when he answers.
We haven't talked in 6-7 hours
I don't want to keep texting. And I don't want to get his families attention by asking them if he's around. I've tried asking his mom but sometimes she just gives me one word replies and it doesn't help at all