Im 20/m and im starting to get sexually confused. Which is wierd

>>17341942
>Is this just a phase
Yes. If you don't give in it should be gone in a while.
Same happened to me, i got interested into having more skinship with guys and watching gay porn, but i held my ground and after some months i became 100% straight again.

>looking at dudes
well they're around, so...

>(am I gay)
do you want to have sex with men?

>should I talk to someone?
about your fear of becoming gay?

>>17341990
Sometimes yeah ill have the thought

And yes to the last question

>>17341942
>should i talk to someone
Absolutely. You should talk to a dude you catch yourself checking out, and ask to fuck him (or suck him off, or get fucked, etc.--whatever sex act crosses your mind at the time). If he says yes, do it, and see if you're into it.

If you are, you may be gay or bisexual. If you can't get it up or you dislike the experience, you are probably not.

>>17341942
first : it is not a problem. Unless you consider that your family would not tolerate it . second, probably you are bi and are discovering . If so do not worry so you can always find more girls than boys . It is part of knowing your sexuality. It is bad if you see it that way