I'm going on my first date via tinder, what do I do to not spaghetti everywhere?
>>17332656
Its a tinder date. Nothing you do matters because you'll probably never hear from her again.
Regardless
>Grimes fan
Listen to Halfaxa and just relax. Do whatever you want, not what you think she'll want. The overhead of actively engineering an interaction isn't worth it, don't even bother.
Since it's your first date, just think of it as practice. Assume you're never going to see her again. You can try things out; what happens if you sit closer than normal, or whatever? It doesn't matter if she doesn't like you because it was just an experiment, trial run. You're just gathering some data for next time. No need to stress or worry. You will have more fun, and you're actually likely to be a better date than if you were stressing and trying hard to please.
>>17332728
i agree with this OP. just have fun, be (mostly) yourself and avoid spergy topics like videogames, 4chan and how much weed you smoke.
taking the opportunity to derail a bit and ask what do you guys do to start -specifically start- tinder convos bc it's become a game of seeing how many girls i can attract with my looks and repel with what i say. i suppose im somewhat attractive since ive had about 15-20 matches since saturday but most of the ones i talk to either fall off after a brief exchage or unmatch after the first message. i don't really have this problem irl and once i get the ball rolling im usually fine but cant seem to start many conversations pls help im so lonely :(
>>17332927
But that's all there is to talk about. Should I talk about anime?
>Tinder date
Just remember that she could flake at anytime before the date. Meeting her is not guaranteed by any means.
>>17332944
well to be fair she could be into any of the shit i told you to avoid but chances are she isn't so unless you get the cue DON'T TALK ABOUT ANIME.
>>17332979
You're not leaving me with any options man
Just give her the old lickaroo.
>>17332944
>>17332981
Fuck off I'm not that autistic
So don't talk to her about autistic things unless she brings them up, and even then don't go autism on them. Relax and it should be good
Seems like it could be nice, she's a 7.5/10 qt3.14
Mention 4chan. INSTANT panty dropper!
>>17333385
>Hey, I admin a meme page