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>been going to a women's group for quite some time >very

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>been going to a women's group for quite some time
>very informative meetings, learn a lot of very interesting things
>we're encouraged to bring friends along
>bring my best friend who I've known for years
>she seems bored during the meeting
>at one point pops in headphones and starts playing a fighting game on her laptop
>other people in the room start staring at her
>one girl pops out her ear bud and asks"is there something wrong?"
>friend says this is stupid and shes bored so shes playing video games
>I get super embarrassed
>other girls start trying to talk to her about various issues
>she says "this is really stupid, pointless shit, I'm going back to my game, you people discuss your dumb shit and tell me when I can go home."
>room stunned.
>she gets banned
>I get banned for bringing her and associating with her
>I try to tell her how this makes me feel.
>she just shrugs and says "I'm doing you a favor."
>we then get into a fight...
>she seems unphased
>finally says "If you're gonna be a douche about all this, don't bother talking to me anymore."
>she walks home...
I am really pissed off at her, she refuses to apologize and has even gone far enough as to delete me off of facebook... how do I get her to see she is in the wrong.
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>>17328724
She's a bitch that hates women, be glad that she's gone and find a new group and a better friend.
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You can't - just move on, and in the future, don't try to force people to do things they're clearly not interested in.
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What kind of "meetings"?
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>>17328744
ding ding ding we have a critical thinker following the correct order of operations to giving good advice.

good job anon. you other two, not so much. ya'll don't know shit about shit and your mouth is already going off.
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>>17328761
I work at a community center that has groups that support women (and men) with programs, etc., I logically assumed it was the same. I'm not one to automatically assume the worst, her friend had no good reasons from what was shown and I gave my analysis based on that, you or him got no response so you can't assume anything since they didn't answer.
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>>17328761
Plus I don't give advice on here and expect people to follow it, I'm just here because I'm bored. I have absolutely no obligation to even think before I post.
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>"women's group"
I'd tune out and play video games in your safe space too. Get over yourself.
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>>17328724
You shouldn't have even brought her. If she really was your best friend you probably should have known she wasn't into that kind of thing. Next time don't bring people to shit that they don't want to go to just because it makes you feel good about "empowering" them. She obviously doesn't give a shit and wont be apologizing, take your cue from her and move the fuck on
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>>17329044
>muh vagina
>muh porn
>muh-soggy-knee!
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>>17329078
Nothing to do with that, assholes

Is common courtesy and propriety such a HARD thing to ask of millennials?

She could've politely excused herself at any point during the meeting if she was bored.
Instead she chose to passive aggressively voice her displeasure like a typical self-entitled gen z cunt.

I'm a conservative. I couldn't give a rat's dick about safe spaces and the crying that left-leaning groups do. But when I was a kid, if I was invited to something and I pulled that shit, my father would've made my ass black and blue.

Show some propriety for fuck sakes. Fucking kids.
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And that's another fucking thing. Not everything has to entertain you. The reason why the world is going to shit so fast is because we have an entire generation of focus-deficient man(woman)children who instead of going out to vote, sit at home and play their goddamn video games. They're the reason for Brexit, they'll be the reason why a criminal like Hillary Clinton gets into power, a whole generation of grown kids who just want to be entertained.

It's fucking disgusting and you should be ashamed of yourselves. I knew one time when guys ragged on women for liking stupid shit like the Kardashians, as if your obsession with Team Fortress 2 is anything to feel proud about.
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>>17329256
>Brexit was a mistake

SJW detected
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>what she could have done
excused herself.
engaged herself and lived up to that responsibillity from the jump.

>what you could have done
escort her out and talk outside.
left with her.

>what you need to do now
leave her alone. you will not reason with her at all until she gets over this herself from the point she is at right now. it may take a few days, it may actually take years. if this significance for you is of any significance for her, she will remember things and feel shame.
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>>17329256
Uh, dick for brains, the millenials were the ones voting to stay. Get you fucking facts straight, it was the older generations that voted to leave and the millenials are getting fucked over for it.
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Nobody's fault really. You brought her to a meeting for the first time and she didn't like it.

It was probably one of those "MUH vaginas, muh curves, muh body is a temple" B.S. and she just didn't feel like getting brainwashed or wasn't interested at all.

Your "Womyn" group is full of elite, narcissistic cunts. They ban you for associating with her? Shit your friend indeed, did you a favor.

She isn't in the wrong for disliking the meetings. Sure it was a shitty thing to play video games in the middle of a meeting. But is not like she had the full volume blasting, she had headphones.

If it was her 2nd-4th time there, then yeah, I'd say she's on the wrong.

But wanting to be mad at somebody and calling them wrong for disliking the topic you show them for the first time?

OP just let it go. Fuck that group for telling you who you can, and CAN'T be friends with.
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>>17329478
Psst. Kid. The internet is not the real world.

Not everybody who's interested in social issues is a >safe space >my feels >check your privilege >womyn's studies Tumblrista.

Grow up. Wise up.
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>>17329251
They told you to stop talking/associating to/with her. Your literately in a cult.
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>>17329569
Well i doubt your talking about the rains and the newest way to knit. Honestly i repeat what i said earlier, your thing sounds like a cult. Full on hostility to ppl outside it, encouraging social isolation, death glares, and not "liking" ppls right to do what the fuck they want.
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Your best friend picked up on how this group has been changing you not for the better. She recognized the group as the likely source of the new opinions you've been espousing that don't fit with who you are and that anyone with common sense from the outside looking in would see as retarded and harmful. When you invited her to come along, she accepted to see if she was just being paranoid or jealous or otherwise overreacting. Nope, dead on. Gave it a chance and group was crazy emotionally manipulative and exploitative brainwashing crap. Rather than sit quietly for the sake of being polite and say nothing in the face of something she knew to be wrong, she said fuck this noise and stood up to it. Clever way to do it too if you ask me. Non intrusive, didn't interrupt, but the message was perfectly clear. Anyhow, what she did prompted them to show their true colors. Don't be stupid or insulted or buttmad enough to discount their reaction. She 100% DID do you a favor. If the friendship dissolves over this, it will be your loss, not hers.
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>>17329251
>>17329256
Got no advice, but I just wanted to congratulate you for somehow making everything about generations. Real fuckin' smart.
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>>17329702
Instead of acting like a proper adult and challenging the groups opinions or questioning them she decided to act like a twat and play videogames and act like a disrespectfull cunt. She came off as a child and took the cowards way out.
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We still don't know about what was the meeting.
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>>17328724

regardless of opinions on a womens group she was wrong for being a douche. she could have excused herself to the hallway at the very least ot simply said 'this just isnt for me im sorry'
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>>17329438
That was their point. The millennials were too lazy to go vote
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>>17328724
What she did was so bad that is better finish the friendship? Don't let your feeling decide for you, talk to her when you think you two calmed down and forget about the problem. Sometimes people behave like idiots and are too proud to say they are sorry.
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>>17329569

>The internet is not the real world.

It is, actually.
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>>17328834
Fucking Right.
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