i have no idea why i self sabotage myself constantly. does anyone

In what ways do you self-sabotage, op?

>>17299780
I tell girls how small my penis is when I start dating them.

>>17299780
committments. whether it be plans with friends, work functions, family, school, or even intimate relationships. theres a trend where if its going good i do something that i know i probably shouldnt do and fuck it up somehow. but when im doing bad i do everything the way i should, if not better. makes me feel like a real piece of shit, but i just dont know how to stop.

>>17299812
If you're op, you're mostly autistic and made a shitty thread
but you're supposedly not

>>17299812
youre a brave soul

>>17299831
Yeah, man, i have that towards exams and feel the urge to bring conflict to relationships from time to time.
It was really fucked up when i couldn't control it.
Isn't that feel natural?
Dunno, maybe you use your behaviour as an outlet for a deep-seated issue?

4chan gives advice only to specified situations
http://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/17295725/#17295813
http://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/17292021/#17292173

>>17299858
thanks bro, appriciate the links

>>17299812
You can start by not doing that again, if you are so concerned about it.