Hi all, need some help with a girls in general. Basically i'm a 20 y old virgin dude that never messaged a girl, or even had a relationship. Dunno why, i do not consider myself ugly and/or stupid (that required some work though, low self esteem problems). Lately things changed quite a bit and i was able to set a date with a girl tthat was older than me.......we both agreed it couldn't work. It all comes up to yesterday, when i sent a friiendship request on Facebook to another girl, which according to a friend of mine should be interested in me. The problem is that i'm fucking scared, and i don't know why. The very moment i sent her a message saying "hi" i felt like shit, thinking about "wtf you doing man she won't ever like you, get over it". What The hell is wrong with me, do i just need to step out of my comfort zone and grow some balls?
>>17294183
bump
>>17294183
>What The hell is wrong with me, do i just need to step out of my comfort zone and grow some balls?
yes
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>>17294183
I'd say just incrementally do stuff like this that makes you uncomfortable. Really small steps. After 10 interactions, you'll probably realize that 6-7/10 of the times it's not that bad. And even when u fuck up, it isn't that bad.
>>17294183
Women want you to talk to them, they will sense if you are scared, then not like you, because they want you to talk to them