How can you make your first time with someone you really like

MDMA

Paying attention to her.

>>17288150
First times ARE shit, no matter how experienced you both are. You either accept that and take what pleasure you can, or you accept that and look forward to the second time.

What makes the second time work is that you both pause to ask what position/foreplay/rhythm the other prefers.

For some reason - heat of passion or an odd sort of shyness - too few people pause to ask that the first time.

Alcohol

Bumping for similar interest.

I feel like there's a lot riding on my first time. I will be losing my virginity to my gf at some point, but we've been together for months. On the first attempt I couldn't actually get it up due to nerves and we just stopped. She's been more understanding about it than she has any right to be. Anyway I know it wont be great but I don't want it to be fucking awful.