I recently met someone through one of those online apps for meeting people.
After texting with her for a while and really seeming to make a connection with her she mentions how she is married.
After finding this out it really sucks but i'm still willing to be friends with her as she seems like a really nice person. She's just in the area for a few months and tells me that her marriage is on the rocks right now. Her husband cheated on her.
I meet up with her and hang out, coffee, walk, lots of talking. She asked me in and I said sure, we sat next to each other on the couch talking and ended up holding hands. She was very respectful and asked if i was uncomfortable or if i wanted this to stop. I told her I wish I could but I just couldn't bring myself to do it because of where she was married.
I end up leaving and she texted me saying how comfortable she felt with me and that she would still like to be friends.
I have never met someone like this in a very long time that I made such a deep connection with. Almost everything we talked about we shared a common interest in.
I feel like the first time in a long time I've met someone that actually understands me.
I don't know what to do.
>>17271557
You do know that it is possible and perfectly OK for a man and woman to be platonic friends.
I suspect, though, that a married woman only in the area for a few months was looking for a short sexual adventure rather than a nice friend.
>>17271564
I know, and I would have been fine with that if it wasn't for the connection I made with her.
Well, she could be here for a few months or for much longer. It depends on what she decides is going to happen with her marriage.
I thought about that too, which is what worries me because I really don't want to be used - especially with someone that I'm starting to have feelings for.
help bump